Emil Zahner <
75114.11@COMPUSERVE.COM> wrote:
>>... We all get grinded through life...<<
Yes, and some of us learn to avoid future grindings while others learn
to use the grindings as a method to improve our brilliance and to remove
the burrs of life which is all too uncomfortable for many of us.
>>... The difference may lay
in the reaction of becoming an open
or closed personality/having an
open mind, and recognizing which
values are real and which are
artificial. Then use this
rope while "climbing
the mountain"...<<
We learn how to react to lifes' grindings before we are teenagers.
In "The Managerial Mystique: Restoring Leadership in Business"
Dr. Abraham Zaleznik asserts that "managers", by their very nature,
thrive on control, therefore, anything that they perceive as costing
them control is unsettling and is to be avoided. Also, managers do
not allow themselves the luxury of failure whereas a leader will try,
fail, and try again all the while learning new and valuable lessons.
The manager on the other hand learns only one lesson in life--don't
fail--and to ensure non-failure managers seldom take risks.
On page 23 of Dr. Zaleznik's book he writes:
"Whereas managers focus of process, leaders
focus on imaginative ideas. Leaders are not
only dreamers, but stimulate and drive other
people to work hard and create reality out of ideas...
In comparison to visionary leaders such as...Sam
Walton, managers are practical people. Typically
they are hard working, intelligent, analytical
and tolerant of others. Because they hold few
convictions with passion, except perhaps the
need to extract order out of potential chaos,
they exhibit a high degree of fair-mindedness
in dealing with people.
Leaders are more dramatic in style and
unpredictable behavior. They seem to overcome
the conflict between order and chaos with an
authority legitimized by personal magnetism
and a commitment to their own undertakings
and destinies."
>>... Some seem to reach a better
state - a better grind...<<
Yes, the people with more leadership qualities.
Bob
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