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    Posted 05-27-1998 12:57
    Come on people. Please take the squabble off-line. Thanks.

    Larry E. Pate
    University of Wisconsin-Madison

    At 12:04 PM 5/27/98 EDT, you wrote:
    >Robert:
    >I guess I am a bit concerned that someone who espouses "cooperative
    >communication" has so openly and immediately chastised someone for what
    >obviously was an unintentional mistake of posting an article on the list. As
    >a list member, occasional poster, and daily lurker, postings that come across
    >as purely chastising events (you did not include information on copyrights)
    >discourage open participation for the less confident participant. It adds to
    >the risk involved with giving opinions, feedback, and the expansion of
    >knowledge of everyone. As an author, I share your concerns, but there are
    >alternatives to this response....
    >1) send a message to the writer directly in a "coaching" tone: Are you
    >aware.... or ... It might help you to know.... creating a learning
    opportunity
    >for her in a less disrupting venue.
    >2) wait a few days to post "information" around copyrights to the general
    list
    >defusing the direct hit to the poster..... giving others the opportunity to
    >learn from the posting.
    >3) do both
    >In living up to my suggestion, I often respond directly to writers to seek
    and
    >provide both myself and the originator opportunities to learn. And I
    >acknowledge, with apologies, that this post may not be living up to my
    >suggestion of posting directly.... but occasionally, justified or not, people
    >get back what they give out....
    >
    >Jane Galloway Seiling
    >419-227-7979 fax: 419-222-2002
    >Lima, OH
    >Author: The Membership Organization
    > 1998 SHRM Book of the Year
    >