Hi...
Three years ago in a list whose membership included professional
psychologists, a flame war occurred, over some comments made about
"postmodernism". I offered the followed comments then which might be
appropriate to protagonist and antagonist alike over this attachment
thing.
My 1996 post went as follows:
"I am curious about how those on the list who have conducted
research on flaming behavior within CMC would characterize the
exchanges that went on in connection with the entire postmodern
related postings. Would those same exchanges be considered
antagonistic if we were in a F2F context? It seems to me that without
the normal cues that are part of F2F communication a simple word or
phrase or comment becomes amplified disproportionately. Does
electronic media do that? What appears as flames in CMC might not
be flames in F2F.
It is a smart thing to lighten up a bit in the context of a list and
perhaps enter into a bit of self reflexivity. After all this is only a
list.
Who's egos are being bruised and if they are why? If people on the
list want to REALLY get into what flaming is I will be glad to take
you to the Red Hook section of Brooklyn or the 125th street area of
Manhattan.
Getting back into self reflexivity. If we are really concerned with
furthering knowledge it would be interesting to start with ourselves
in this very non threatening environment of a list and hear in a
testimonial fashion as to what got you upset and why."
Mike Chumer
Head Media and Digital Services, Rutgers Dana Library
Faculty, School of Communication, Information, and Library Studies