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  • 1.  A Confessed Regret

    Posted 07-20-2004 13:55
    Another job posting for an associate professor made its way into my email
    in-box a short while ago. For some reason this one triggered more than a
    cursory scan and a quick trip to the delete key. This time I sat there,
    regretting my lack of educational credentials. It saddened me for a moment
    to think that I have learned so much over the years that can never be shared
    that way. What a waste.

    I have often maintained the fiction that the lack of a college degree
    (coupled with spending the first 20 years of my working career in the Navy)
    has never been a hindrance. But it is indeed a fiction. True enough, I
    have had a career that many with far better credentials never achieved and
    that some envy. However, forever unanswered goes the question: "What might
    I have accomplished had I been armed with those credentials?" I suspect my
    accomplishments might have been much greater.

    However, at 66 years of age, I have no intention of remedying the situation.
    Nor do I have any intention of wallowing in regret. I just thought I'd
    share a reflection with my better educated colleagues and to let you know I
    envy you the potential you enjoy and that eludes me. I hope you come to
    appreciate it as much as I do.

    Regards,

    Fred Nickols, CPT
    Distance Consulting
    "Assistance at a Distance"
    nickols@att.net
    www.nickols.us


  • 2.  A Confessed Regret

    Posted 07-20-2004 14:13
    Dear Fred,

    Perhaps now is the time for you to do graduate work and share your hard
    earned knowledge through some thoughtful writings. Given your age and,
    I presume, financial security, you don't have to rush through the
    process. Yet, it seems to me you could write a hell of a dissertation
    and some interesting articles.

    Respectfully,

    Ralph



    On Jul 20, 2004, at 1:54 PM, Fred Nickols wrote:

    > Another job posting for an associate professor made its way into my
    > email
    > in-box a short while ago. For some reason this one triggered more
    > than a
    > cursory scan and a quick trip to the delete key. This time I sat
    > there,
    > regretting my lack of educational credentials. It saddened me for a
    > moment
    > to think that I have learned so much over the years that can never be
    > shared
    > that way. What a waste.
    >
    > I have often maintained the fiction that the lack of a college degree
    > (coupled with spending the first 20 years of my working career in the
    > Navy)
    > has never been a hindrance. But it is indeed a fiction. True enough,
    > I
    > have had a career that many with far better credentials never achieved
    > and
    > that some envy. However, forever unanswered goes the question: "What
    > might
    > I have accomplished had I been armed with those credentials?" I
    > suspect my
    > accomplishments might have been much greater.
    >
    > However, at 66 years of age, I have no intention of remedying the
    > situation.
    > Nor do I have any intention of wallowing in regret. I just thought I'd
    > share a reflection with my better educated colleagues and to let you
    > know I
    > envy you the potential you enjoy and that eludes me. I hope you come
    > to
    > appreciate it as much as I do.
    >
    > Regards,
    >
    > Fred Nickols, CPT
    > Distance Consulting
    > "Assistance at a Distance"
    > nickols@att.net
    > www.nickols.us
    >


  • 3.  A Confessed Regret

    Posted 07-20-2004 15:23
    I applaud what you have done with your life and I don't see that 66 is so old you couldn't go ahead and give some lucky institution of "higher" education the opportunity of having you as a student.

    Similarly, though I have collected a bunch of degrees, I have never done research, and now find, at 75, I WANT to, but am having the challenge of finding my right place!

    Thank you for sharing.

    Edryce

    Ralph Hanke <ralphh@psu.edu> wrote:
    Dear Fred,

    Perhaps now is the time for you to do graduate work and share your hard
    earned knowledge through some thoughtful writings. Given your age and,
    I presume, financial security, you don't have to rush through the
    process. Yet, it seems to me you could write a hell of a dissertation
    and some interesting articles.

    Respectfully,

    Ralph



    On Jul 20, 2004, at 1:54 PM, Fred Nickols wrote:

    > Another job posting for an associate professor made its way into my
    > email
    > in-box a short while ago. For some reason this one triggered more
    > than a
    > cursory scan and a quick trip to the delete key. This time I sat
    > there,
    > regretting my lack of educational credentials. It saddened me for a
    > moment
    > to think that I have learned so much over the years that can never be
    > shared
    > that way. What a waste.
    >
    > I have often maintained the fiction that the lack of a college degree
    > (coupled with spending the first 20 years of my working career in the
    > Navy)
    > has never been a hindrance. But it is indeed a fiction. True enough,
    > I
    > have had a career that many with far better credentials never achieved
    > and
    > that some envy. However, forever unanswered goes the question: "What
    > might
    > I have accomplished had I been armed with those credentials?" I
    > suspect my
    > accomplishments might have been much greater.
    >
    > However, at 66 years of age, I have no intention of remedying the
    > situation.
    > Nor do I have any intention of wallowing in regret. I just thought I'd
    > share a reflection with my better educated colleagues and to let you
    > know I
    > envy you the potential you enjoy and that eludes me. I hope you come
    > to
    > appreciate it as much as I do.
    >
    > Regards,
    >
    > Fred Nickols, CPT
    > Distance Consulting
    > "Assistance at a Distance"
    > nickols@att.net
    > www.nickols.us
    >


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  • 4.  A Confessed Regret

    Posted 07-20-2004 15:27
    Edryce: What do you mean about finding your right place? Do you mean
    geographical place or psychic place? I know you have tried to get
    discussion going here on some of your topics- I think your issues are
    relevant and interesting. And your mind is sharp as a tack. In our
    communiques, I had no idea I was dealing with a senior- may I call you
    that? You are insightful and creative- and you have much to say of
    value.

    What would the right place look like for you??

    Collegially

    deborah

    Deborah Nixon
    University of Toronto
    704 Windermere Ave
    Toronto Ont M6S 3M1
    Ph: 416-763-6985
    Fax: 416-763-3361



    -----Original Message-----
    From: Management Education and Development Discussion
    [mailto:MG-ED-DV@MAELSTROM.STJOHNS.EDU] On Behalf Of Edryce Reynolds
    Sent: Tuesday, July 20, 2004 3:23 PM
    To: MG-ED-DV@MAELSTROM.STJOHNS.EDU
    Subject: Re: A Confessed Regret


    I applaud what you have done with your life and I don't see that 66 is
    so old you couldn't go ahead and give some lucky institution of "higher"
    education the opportunity of having you as a student.

    Similarly, though I have collected a bunch of degrees, I have never done
    research, and now find, at 75, I WANT to, but am having the challenge of
    finding my right place!

    Thank you for sharing.

    Edryce

    Ralph Hanke <ralphh@psu.edu> wrote:
    Dear Fred,

    Perhaps now is the time for you to do graduate work and share your hard
    earned knowledge through some thoughtful writings. Given your age and, I
    presume, financial security, you don't have to rush through the process.
    Yet, it seems to me you could write a hell of a dissertation and some
    interesting articles.

    Respectfully,

    Ralph



    On Jul 20, 2004, at 1:54 PM, Fred Nickols wrote:

    > Another job posting for an associate professor made its way into my
    > email in-box a short while ago. For some reason this one triggered
    > more than a
    > cursory scan and a quick trip to the delete key. This time I sat
    > there,
    > regretting my lack of educational credentials. It saddened me for a
    > moment
    > to think that I have learned so much over the years that can never be
    > shared
    > that way. What a waste.
    >
    > I have often maintained the fiction that the lack of a college degree
    > (coupled with spending the first 20 years of my working career in the
    > Navy)
    > has never been a hindrance. But it is indeed a fiction. True enough, I
    > have had a career that many with far better credentials never achieved
    > and
    > that some envy. However, forever unanswered goes the question: "What
    > might
    > I have accomplished had I been armed with those credentials?" I
    > suspect my
    > accomplishments might have been much greater.
    >
    > However, at 66 years of age, I have no intention of remedying the
    > situation. Nor do I have any intention of wallowing in regret. I just
    > thought I'd share a reflection with my better educated colleagues and
    > to let you know I
    > envy you the potential you enjoy and that eludes me. I hope you come
    > to
    > appreciate it as much as I do.
    >
    > Regards,
    >
    > Fred Nickols, CPT
    > Distance Consulting
    > "Assistance at a Distance"
    > nickols@att.net
    > www.nickols.us
    >


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  • 5.  A Confessed Regret

    Posted 07-21-2004 13:56
    Deborah,

    Great question! Thanks. As to the "senior" label, I tend to shy away from labels. I don't refer to anyone in an age-related way, because I remember when I was in my twenties not being listened to because of my age. I also don't want to be listened to because of my current age. I want to listen to everyone's ideas for their potential merit only.

    (No doubt that was more than anyone would like to hear about my reaction to the word "senior.")

    My right place would be an institution (which could be anywhere geographically) which would be willing to put me on as an instructor while I defined several research projects. Never have I been in such a role, so I am unskilled at seeking it. I have never functioned in an ongoing "academic" environment, never held the "professor" title, and it's not customary for someone to begin a life of research this late. (Okay, I'm almost saying it - "senior")

    You have given me a concrete question which will require some more thought. I appreciate the support.

    Edryce

    deborah nixon <deborahnixon@sympatico.ca> wrote:
    Edryce: What do you mean about finding your right place? Do you mean
    geographical place or psychic place? I know you have tried to get
    discussion going here on some of your topics- I think your issues are
    relevant and interesting. And your mind is sharp as a tack. In our
    communiques, I had no idea I was dealing with a senior- may I call you
    that? You are insightful and creative- and you have much to say of
    value.

    What would the right place look like for you??

    Collegially

    deborah

    Deborah Nixon
    University of Toronto
    704 Windermere Ave
    Toronto Ont M6S 3M1
    Ph: 416-763-6985
    Fax: 416-763-3361



    -----Original Message-----
    From: Management Education and Development Discussion
    [mailto:MG-ED-DV@MAELSTROM.STJOHNS.EDU] On Behalf Of Edryce Reynolds
    Sent: Tuesday, July 20, 2004 3:23 PM
    To: MG-ED-DV@MAELSTROM.STJOHNS.EDU
    Subject: Re: A Confessed Regret


    I applaud what you have done with your life and I don't see that 66 is
    so old you couldn't go ahead and give some lucky institution of "higher"
    education the opportunity of having you as a student.

    Similarly, though I have collected a bunch of degrees, I have never done
    research, and now find, at 75, I WANT to, but am having the challenge of
    finding my right place!

    Thank you for sharing.

    Edryce

    Ralph Hanke wrote:
    Dear Fred,

    Perhaps now is the time for you to do graduate work and share your hard
    earned knowledge through some thoughtful writings. Given your age and, I
    presume, financial security, you don't have to rush through the process.
    Yet, it seems to me you could write a hell of a dissertation and some
    interesting articles.

    Respectfully,

    Ralph



    On Jul 20, 2004, at 1:54 PM, Fred Nickols wrote:

    > Another job posting for an associate professor made its way into my
    > email in-box a short while ago. For some reason this one triggered
    > more than a
    > cursory scan and a quick trip to the delete key. This time I sat
    > there,
    > regretting my lack of educational credentials. It saddened me for a
    > moment
    > to think that I have learned so much over the years that can never be
    > shared
    > that way. What a waste.
    >
    > I have often maintained the fiction that the lack of a college degree
    > (coupled with spending the first 20 years of my working career in the
    > Navy)
    > has never been a hindrance. But it is indeed a fiction. True enough, I
    > have had a career that many with far better credentials never achieved
    > and
    > that some envy. However, forever unanswered goes the question: "What
    > might
    > I have accomplished had I been armed with those credentials?" I
    > suspect my
    > accomplishments might have been much greater.
    >
    > However, at 66 years of age, I have no intention of remedying the
    > situation. Nor do I have any intention of wallowing in regret. I just
    > thought I'd share a reflection with my better educated colleagues and
    > to let you know I
    > envy you the potential you enjoy and that eludes me. I hope you come
    > to
    > appreciate it as much as I do.
    >
    > Regards,
    >
    > Fred Nickols, CPT
    > Distance Consulting
    > "Assistance at a Distance"
    > nickols@att.net
    > www.nickols.us
    >


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  • 6.  A Confessed Regret (of an autodidact)

    Posted 07-20-2004 14:30
    Fred
    Having attained high executive in organizations such as the
    Educational Testing Service, your background as autodidact indeed has NOT
    hindered your immensely successful career. I can imagine an institution
    such as the University of Phoenix would jump at the opportunity to get
    someone with your resume. What is surprising to me is that you find being
    66 an impediment to get a doctorate. Indeed I am certain that you could
    whiz through such a program. I recommend getting one from a European school
    where rather than coursework research might be the focus. That is, find an
    institution where you could study and write on in a scholarly way what
    interests you. Once you have your doctorate, in the present legal climate, I
    suspect that your age would not stop you getting interviews. Once you get
    in an interview situation, I am sure that many institutions would want to
    snatch you up.
    In awe of your management know-how and knowledge,
    Charles Wankel

    -----Original Message-----

    Another job posting for an associate professor made its way into my email
    in-box a short while ago. For some reason this one triggered more than a
    cursory scan and a quick trip to the delete key. This time I sat there,
    regretting my lack of educational credentials. It saddened me for a moment
    to think that I have learned so much over the years that can never be shared
    that way. What a waste.

    I have often maintained the fiction that the lack of a college degree
    (coupled with spending the first 20 years of my working career in the Navy)
    has never been a hindrance. But it is indeed a fiction. True enough, I
    have had a career that many with far better credentials never achieved and
    that some envy. However, forever unanswered goes the question: "What might
    I have accomplished had I been armed with those credentials?" I suspect my
    accomplishments might have been much greater.

    However, at 66 years of age, I have no intention of remedying the situation.
    Nor do I have any intention of wallowing in regret. I just thought I'd
    share a reflection with my better educated colleagues and to let you know I
    envy you the potential you enjoy and that eludes me. I hope you come to
    appreciate it as much as I do.

    Regards,

    Fred Nickols, CPT
    Distance Consulting
    "Assistance at a Distance"
    nickols@att.net
    www.nickols.us


  • 7.  Age and Re: A Confessed Regret (of an autodidact)

    Posted 07-21-2004 03:21
    I must disagree Chas, age discrimination is alive and
    well in the US. I was reading an article on one of the
    first-person online columns in Chronicle.com this year
    or last, and the poor doofus new asst prof in charge
    of a search made a comment to the effect, "of course
    we don't consider any of the 50 and over white males",
    in public, on Chronicle.com.

    My advice to Fred is, if you want a Ph.D., go get one;
    all it takes is average or so intelligence,
    persistence, work, time, and a decent supervisor. But
    don't expect to get hired into a full-time post at 70,
    or 60, maybe at 50.

    Regards,
    Romie

    --- Charles Wankel <cxx@bellatlantic.net> wrote: >
    Fred
    > Having attained high executive in organizations
    > such as the
    > Educational Testing Service, your background as
    > autodidact indeed has NOT
    > hindered your immensely successful career. I can
    > imagine an institution
    > such as the University of Phoenix would jump at the
    > opportunity to get
    > someone with your resume. What is surprising to me
    > is that you find being
    > 66 an impediment to get a doctorate. Indeed I am
    > certain that you could
    > whiz through such a program. I recommend getting
    > one from a European school
    > where rather than coursework research might be the
    > focus. That is, find an
    > institution where you could study and write on in a
    > scholarly way what
    > interests you. Once you have your doctorate, in the
    > present legal climate, I
    > suspect that your age would not stop you getting
    > interviews. Once you get
    > in an interview situation, I am sure that many
    > institutions would want to
    > snatch you up.
    > In awe of your management know-how and knowledge,
    > Charles Wankel
    >
    > -----Original Message-----
    >
    > Another job posting for an associate professor made
    > its way into my email
    > in-box a short while ago. For some reason this one
    > triggered more than a
    > cursory scan and a quick trip to the delete key.
    > This time I sat there,
    > regretting my lack of educational credentials. It
    > saddened me for a moment
    > to think that I have learned so much over the years
    > that can never be shared
    > that way. What a waste.
    >
    > I have often maintained the fiction that the lack of
    > a college degree
    > (coupled with spending the first 20 years of my
    > working career in the Navy)
    > has never been a hindrance. But it is indeed a
    > fiction. True enough, I
    > have had a career that many with far better
    > credentials never achieved and
    > that some envy. However, forever unanswered goes
    > the question: "What might
    > I have accomplished had I been armed with those
    > credentials?" I suspect my
    > accomplishments might have been much greater.
    >
    > However, at 66 years of age, I have no intention of
    > remedying the situation.
    > Nor do I have any intention of wallowing in regret.
    > I just thought I'd
    > share a reflection with my better educated
    > colleagues and to let you know I
    > envy you the potential you enjoy and that eludes me.
    > I hope you come to
    > appreciate it as much as I do.
    >
    > Regards,
    >
    > Fred Nickols, CPT
    > Distance Consulting
    > "Assistance at a Distance"
    > nickols@att.net
    > www.nickols.us
    >

    =====
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    Faculty of Business, Auckland University of Technology
    Private Bag 1020
    Auckland 1020, New Zealand
    Fax (64) 9 - 917 -9629
    http://www.romielittrellpubs.homestead.com/
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  • 8.  Reply and Reply All for MG-ED-Dv

    Posted 07-21-2004 04:20
    Charles, et al., looks like the REPLY and the REPLY
    ALL functions both are linked to the mg-ed-dv list. To
    reply to the sender I had to cut and paste the
    address.
    Regards,
    Romie

    --- Charles Wankel <cxx@bellatlantic.net> wrote: >
    Fred
    > Having attained high executive in organizations
    > such as the
    > Educational Testing Service, your background as
    > autodidact indeed has NOT
    > hindered your immensely successful career. I can
    > imagine an institution
    > such as the University of Phoenix would jump at the
    > opportunity to get
    > someone with your resume. What is surprising to me
    > is that you find being
    > 66 an impediment to get a doctorate. Indeed I am
    > certain that you could
    > whiz through such a program. I recommend getting
    > one from a European school
    > where rather than coursework research might be the
    > focus. That is, find an
    > institution where you could study and write on in a
    > scholarly way what
    > interests you. Once you have your doctorate, in the
    > present legal climate, I
    > suspect that your age would not stop you getting
    > interviews. Once you get
    > in an interview situation, I am sure that many
    > institutions would want to
    > snatch you up.
    > In awe of your management know-how and knowledge,
    > Charles Wankel
    >
    > -----Original Message-----
    >
    > Another job posting for an associate professor made
    > its way into my email
    > in-box a short while ago. For some reason this one
    > triggered more than a
    > cursory scan and a quick trip to the delete key.
    > This time I sat there,
    > regretting my lack of educational credentials. It
    > saddened me for a moment
    > to think that I have learned so much over the years
    > that can never be shared
    > that way. What a waste.
    >
    > I have often maintained the fiction that the lack of
    > a college degree
    > (coupled with spending the first 20 years of my
    > working career in the Navy)
    > has never been a hindrance. But it is indeed a
    > fiction. True enough, I
    > have had a career that many with far better
    > credentials never achieved and
    > that some envy. However, forever unanswered goes
    > the question: "What might
    > I have accomplished had I been armed with those
    > credentials?" I suspect my
    > accomplishments might have been much greater.
    >
    > However, at 66 years of age, I have no intention of
    > remedying the situation.
    > Nor do I have any intention of wallowing in regret.
    > I just thought I'd
    > share a reflection with my better educated
    > colleagues and to let you know I
    > envy you the potential you enjoy and that eludes me.
    > I hope you come to
    > appreciate it as much as I do.
    >
    > Regards,
    >
    > Fred Nickols, CPT
    > Distance Consulting
    > "Assistance at a Distance"
    > nickols@att.net
    > www.nickols.us
    >

    =====
    Romie F. Littrell, PhD, An f�na� fi�in
    Faculty of Business, Auckland University of Technology
    Private Bag 1020
    Auckland 1020, New Zealand
    Fax (64) 9 - 917 -9629
    http://www.romielittrellpubs.homestead.com/
    http://www.crossculturalcentre.homestead.com/





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  • 9.  A Confessed Regret - Reply to Fred Nickols

    Posted 07-20-2004 14:43
    Have you looked into Executive-in-Residence positions? Most universities
    have them, going back at least as far as Chester Barnard's position at
    Harvard in the 1930s, and they are intended exactly for talented people with
    significant work and management experience like yourself. Some of those
    positions often lead to regular faculty or administrative appointments. For
    example, Harry Bernard, who spent 30 years at IBM running management
    development programs, was invited by USC to spend a year as an Executive-in
    Residence, which lead a couple years later to becoming the Associate Dean
    for Executive Education at USC, and that's just one of many people I could
    cite. Another road to university teaching without going through the hurdles
    of a traditional Ph.D. program is through programs like The Fielding
    Institute (http://www.fielding.edu/). Another is through the less
    traditional universities, such as the University of Phoenix, or online
    programs, such as Walden.

    Best,

    Larry Pate
    Redondo Beach, California


    -----Original Message-----
    From: Management Education and Development Discussion
    [mailto:MG-ED-DV@MAELSTROM.STJOHNS.EDU] On Behalf Of Fred Nickols
    Sent: Tuesday, July 20, 2004 10:55 AM
    To: MG-ED-DV@MAELSTROM.STJOHNS.EDU
    Subject: A Confessed Regret

    Another job posting for an associate professor made its way into my email
    in-box a short while ago. For some reason this one triggered more than a
    cursory scan and a quick trip to the delete key. This time I sat there,
    regretting my lack of educational credentials. It saddened me for a moment
    to think that I have learned so much over the years that can never be shared
    that way. What a waste.

    I have often maintained the fiction that the lack of a college degree
    (coupled with spending the first 20 years of my working career in the Navy)
    has never been a hindrance. But it is indeed a fiction. True enough, I
    have had a career that many with far better credentials never achieved and
    that some envy. However, forever unanswered goes the question: "What might
    I have accomplished had I been armed with those credentials?" I suspect my
    accomplishments might have been much greater.

    However, at 66 years of age, I have no intention of remedying the situation.
    Nor do I have any intention of wallowing in regret. I just thought I'd
    share a reflection with my better educated colleagues and to let you know I
    envy you the potential you enjoy and that eludes me. I hope you come to
    appreciate it as much as I do.

    Regards,

    Fred Nickols, CPT
    Distance Consulting
    "Assistance at a Distance"
    nickols@att.net
    www.nickols.us


  • 10.  A Confessed Regret

    Posted 07-20-2004 15:07
    Dear Fred: I concur with your view but I'm not convinced that the answer
    is to run out and get the degree. I am doing such a thing after 25
    years in the private sector and I must say that having pursued the
    degree has made me realize that it isn't all that mysterious or
    special. Often academic institutions try to protect their own through
    requiring membership in that small and exclusive club called academia.
    Yet many of the people I have taught beside for years have little to no
    practical experience and therefore have a significant gap in their
    learning. Feedback from students over the years has always indicated
    that students really value experience and the ability to transcend
    theory with real-life examples of where it works- and where it doesn't.

    So, be proud of what you have accomplished. It is the shortsightedness
    and elitism of the academy that often freezes out those with your
    experience and wisdom. I don't know that there would be a whole lot that
    a Phd could teach you that you don't already know. I guess you could
    learn how to read all that horribly boring academic literature- but why
    would you want to do that????

    Collegially

    Deborah Nixon
    University of Toronto
    704 Windermere Ave
    Toronto Ont M6S 3M1
    Ph: 416-763-6985
    Fax: 416-763-3361



    -----Original Message-----
    From: Management Education and Development Discussion
    [mailto:MG-ED-DV@MAELSTROM.STJOHNS.EDU] On Behalf Of Fred Nickols
    Sent: Tuesday, July 20, 2004 1:55 PM
    To: MG-ED-DV@MAELSTROM.STJOHNS.EDU
    Subject: A Confessed Regret


    Another job posting for an associate professor made its way into my
    email in-box a short while ago. For some reason this one triggered more
    than a cursory scan and a quick trip to the delete key. This time I sat
    there, regretting my lack of educational credentials. It saddened me
    for a moment to think that I have learned so much over the years that
    can never be shared that way. What a waste.

    I have often maintained the fiction that the lack of a college degree
    (coupled with spending the first 20 years of my working career in the
    Navy) has never been a hindrance. But it is indeed a fiction. True
    enough, I have had a career that many with far better credentials never
    achieved and that some envy. However, forever unanswered goes the
    question: "What might I have accomplished had I been armed with those
    credentials?" I suspect my accomplishments might have been much
    greater.

    However, at 66 years of age, I have no intention of remedying the
    situation. Nor do I have any intention of wallowing in regret. I just
    thought I'd share a reflection with my better educated colleagues and to
    let you know I envy you the potential you enjoy and that eludes me. I
    hope you come to appreciate it as much as I do.

    Regards,

    Fred Nickols, CPT
    Distance Consulting
    "Assistance at a Distance"
    nickols@att.net
    www.nickols.us


  • 11.  A Confessed Regret

    Posted 07-20-2004 15:24
    I agree! I have five degrees (only one doctorate, though!) and what I have learned is how narrow the higher education community is (generally).

    Edryce

    deborah nixon <deborahnixon@sympatico.ca> wrote:
    Dear Fred: I concur with your view but I'm not convinced that the answer
    is to run out and get the degree. I am doing such a thing after 25
    years in the private sector and I must say that having pursued the
    degree has made me realize that it isn't all that mysterious or
    special. Often academic institutions try to protect their own through
    requiring membership in that small and exclusive club called academia.
    Yet many of the people I have taught beside for years have little to no
    practical experience and therefore have a significant gap in their
    learning. Feedback from students over the years has always indicated
    that students really value experience and the ability to transcend
    theory with real-life examples of where it works- and where it doesn't.

    So, be proud of what you have accomplished. It is the shortsightedness
    and elitism of the academy that often freezes out those with your
    experience and wisdom. I don't know that there would be a whole lot that
    a Phd could teach you that you don't already know. I guess you could
    learn how to read all that horribly boring academic literature- but why
    would you want to do that????

    Collegially

    Deborah Nixon
    University of Toronto
    704 Windermere Ave
    Toronto Ont M6S 3M1
    Ph: 416-763-6985
    Fax: 416-763-3361



    -----Original Message-----
    From: Management Education and Development Discussion
    [mailto:MG-ED-DV@MAELSTROM.STJOHNS.EDU] On Behalf Of Fred Nickols
    Sent: Tuesday, July 20, 2004 1:55 PM
    To: MG-ED-DV@MAELSTROM.STJOHNS.EDU
    Subject: A Confessed Regret


    Another job posting for an associate professor made its way into my
    email in-box a short while ago. For some reason this one triggered more
    than a cursory scan and a quick trip to the delete key. This time I sat
    there, regretting my lack of educational credentials. It saddened me
    for a moment to think that I have learned so much over the years that
    can never be shared that way. What a waste.

    I have often maintained the fiction that the lack of a college degree
    (coupled with spending the first 20 years of my working career in the
    Navy) has never been a hindrance. But it is indeed a fiction. True
    enough, I have had a career that many with far better credentials never
    achieved and that some envy. However, forever unanswered goes the
    question: "What might I have accomplished had I been armed with those
    credentials?" I suspect my accomplishments might have been much
    greater.

    However, at 66 years of age, I have no intention of remedying the
    situation. Nor do I have any intention of wallowing in regret. I just
    thought I'd share a reflection with my better educated colleagues and to
    let you know I envy you the potential you enjoy and that eludes me. I
    hope you come to appreciate it as much as I do.

    Regards,

    Fred Nickols, CPT
    Distance Consulting
    "Assistance at a Distance"
    nickols@att.net
    www.nickols.us


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  • 12.  A Confessed Regret

    Posted 07-20-2004 15:33
    Thanks for adding the generally- I should have said that because I
    wouldn't want anyone to think this is a dogmatic statement. There are
    some wonderful academics but are often doing untraditional work- and
    sometimes suffer the arrows as a result.

    It has been my experience, however, that those who try to follow a path
    that doesn't parallel the typical ie Tier 1 publications and lots of
    them, conference papers etc etc-often get shut out. I prefer to consult
    to business and test my theories than give papers to academic
    conferences. I have been shut out of a number of positions and have
    been told that my competitors have stronger resumes meaning they have
    published in all the right places but have no business experience-
    completely undervalued in academia. I don't even make it to the first
    interview despite years of teaching experience, great teaching
    evaluations by peers and students, almost 30 yrs of business and
    consulting experience, and an in process dissertation.

    It wasn't easy to find a home for my dissertation work which I wanted to
    be practical and useful to the business community. The job I was to do
    was straight theory development in the most abstract sense. I couldn't
    find the energy for that so finally found a place that supported my need
    to make my work meaningful to those whom we teach and purport to help.
    I finally did find that- but not in the business school!

    So, there are pockets of inspiration- just not always where you expect
    them to be!!

    Deborah Nixon
    University of Toronto
    704 Windermere Ave
    Toronto Ont M6S 3M1
    Ph: 416-763-6985
    Fax: 416-763-3361



    -----Original Message-----
    From: Management Education and Development Discussion
    [mailto:MG-ED-DV@MAELSTROM.STJOHNS.EDU] On Behalf Of Edryce Reynolds
    Sent: Tuesday, July 20, 2004 3:24 PM
    To: MG-ED-DV@MAELSTROM.STJOHNS.EDU
    Subject: Re: A Confessed Regret


    I agree! I have five degrees (only one doctorate, though!) and what I
    have learned is how narrow the higher education community is
    (generally).

    Edryce

    deborah nixon <deborahnixon@sympatico.ca> wrote:
    Dear Fred: I concur with your view but I'm not convinced that the answer
    is to run out and get the degree. I am doing such a thing after 25 years
    in the private sector and I must say that having pursued the degree has
    made me realize that it isn't all that mysterious or special. Often
    academic institutions try to protect their own through requiring
    membership in that small and exclusive club called academia. Yet many of
    the people I have taught beside for years have little to no practical
    experience and therefore have a significant gap in their learning.
    Feedback from students over the years has always indicated that students
    really value experience and the ability to transcend theory with
    real-life examples of where it works- and where it doesn't.

    So, be proud of what you have accomplished. It is the shortsightedness
    and elitism of the academy that often freezes out those with your
    experience and wisdom. I don't know that there would be a whole lot that
    a Phd could teach you that you don't already know. I guess you could
    learn how to read all that horribly boring academic literature- but why
    would you want to do that????

    Collegially

    Deborah Nixon
    University of Toronto
    704 Windermere Ave
    Toronto Ont M6S 3M1
    Ph: 416-763-6985
    Fax: 416-763-3361



    -----Original Message-----
    From: Management Education and Development Discussion
    [mailto:MG-ED-DV@MAELSTROM.STJOHNS.EDU] On Behalf Of Fred Nickols
    Sent: Tuesday, July 20, 2004 1:55 PM
    To: MG-ED-DV@MAELSTROM.STJOHNS.EDU
    Subject: A Confessed Regret


    Another job posting for an associate professor made its way into my
    email in-box a short while ago. For some reason this one triggered more
    than a cursory scan and a quick trip to the delete key. This time I sat
    there, regretting my lack of educational credentials. It saddened me for
    a moment to think that I have learned so much over the years that can
    never be shared that way. What a waste.

    I have often maintained the fiction that the lack of a college degree
    (coupled with spending the first 20 years of my working career in the
    Navy) has never been a hindrance. But it is indeed a fiction. True
    enough, I have had a career that many with far better credentials never
    achieved and that some envy. However, forever unanswered goes the
    question: "What might I have accomplished had I been armed with those
    credentials?" I suspect my accomplishments might have been much greater.

    However, at 66 years of age, I have no intention of remedying the
    situation. Nor do I have any intention of wallowing in regret. I just
    thought I'd share a reflection with my better educated colleagues and to
    let you know I envy you the potential you enjoy and that eludes me. I
    hope you come to appreciate it as much as I do.

    Regards,

    Fred Nickols, CPT
    Distance Consulting
    "Assistance at a Distance"
    nickols@att.net
    www.nickols.us


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  • 13.  A Confessed Regret

    Posted 07-21-2004 13:58
    Deborah,

    Your experience sounds a lot like mine. Where I am now is searching for a place to put my energies and interests. I think I am defining what I want to be when I grow up. I also have years of experience in a variety of disciplines, and don't often get to an interview. I admire you and feel you as a kindred spirit.

    Edryce

    deborah nixon <deborahnixon@sympatico.ca> wrote:
    Thanks for adding the generally- I should have said that because I
    wouldn't want anyone to think this is a dogmatic statement. There are
    some wonderful academics but are often doing untraditional work- and
    sometimes suffer the arrows as a result.

    It has been my experience, however, that those who try to follow a path
    that doesn't parallel the typical ie Tier 1 publications and lots of
    them, conference papers etc etc-often get shut out. I prefer to consult
    to business and test my theories than give papers to academic
    conferences. I have been shut out of a number of positions and have
    been told that my competitors have stronger resumes meaning they have
    published in all the right places but have no business experience-
    completely undervalued in academia. I don't even make it to the first
    interview despite years of teaching experience, great teaching
    evaluations by peers and students, almost 30 yrs of business and
    consulting experience, and an in process dissertation.

    It wasn't easy to find a home for my dissertation work which I wanted to
    be practical and useful to the business community. The job I was to do
    was straight theory development in the most abstract sense. I couldn't
    find the energy for that so finally found a place that supported my need
    to make my work meaningful to those whom we teach and purport to help.
    I finally did find that- but not in the business school!

    So, there are pockets of inspiration- just not always where you expect
    them to be!!

    Deborah Nixon
    University of Toronto
    704 Windermere Ave
    Toronto Ont M6S 3M1
    Ph: 416-763-6985
    Fax: 416-763-3361



    -----Original Message-----
    From: Management Education and Development Discussion
    [mailto:MG-ED-DV@MAELSTROM.STJOHNS.EDU] On Behalf Of Edryce Reynolds
    Sent: Tuesday, July 20, 2004 3:24 PM
    To: MG-ED-DV@MAELSTROM.STJOHNS.EDU
    Subject: Re: A Confessed Regret


    I agree! I have five degrees (only one doctorate, though!) and what I
    have learned is how narrow the higher education community is
    (generally).

    Edryce

    deborah nixon wrote:
    Dear Fred: I concur with your view but I'm not convinced that the answer
    is to run out and get the degree. I am doing such a thing after 25 years
    in the private sector and I must say that having pursued the degree has
    made me realize that it isn't all that mysterious or special. Often
    academic institutions try to protect their own through requiring
    membership in that small and exclusive club called academia. Yet many of
    the people I have taught beside for years have little to no practical
    experience and therefore have a significant gap in their learning.
    Feedback from students over the years has always indicated that students
    really value experience and the ability to transcend theory with
    real-life examples of where it works- and where it doesn't.

    So, be proud of what you have accomplished. It is the shortsightedness
    and elitism of the academy that often freezes out those with your
    experience and wisdom. I don't know that there would be a whole lot that
    a Phd could teach you that you don't already know. I guess you could
    learn how to read all that horribly boring academic literature- but why
    would you want to do that????

    Collegially

    Deborah Nixon
    University of Toronto
    704 Windermere Ave
    Toronto Ont M6S 3M1
    Ph: 416-763-6985
    Fax: 416-763-3361



    -----Original Message-----
    From: Management Education and Development Discussion
    [mailto:MG-ED-DV@MAELSTROM.STJOHNS.EDU] On Behalf Of Fred Nickols
    Sent: Tuesday, July 20, 2004 1:55 PM
    To: MG-ED-DV@MAELSTROM.STJOHNS.EDU
    Subject: A Confessed Regret


    Another job posting for an associate professor made its way into my
    email in-box a short while ago. For some reason this one triggered more
    than a cursory scan and a quick trip to the delete key. This time I sat
    there, regretting my lack of educational credentials. It saddened me for
    a moment to think that I have learned so much over the years that can
    never be shared that way. What a waste.

    I have often maintained the fiction that the lack of a college degree
    (coupled with spending the first 20 years of my working career in the
    Navy) has never been a hindrance. But it is indeed a fiction. True
    enough, I have had a career that many with far better credentials never
    achieved and that some envy. However, forever unanswered goes the
    question: "What might I have accomplished had I been armed with those
    credentials?" I suspect my accomplishments might have been much greater.

    However, at 66 years of age, I have no intention of remedying the
    situation. Nor do I have any intention of wallowing in regret. I just
    thought I'd share a reflection with my better educated colleagues and to
    let you know I envy you the potential you enjoy and that eludes me. I
    hope you come to appreciate it as much as I do.

    Regards,

    Fred Nickols, CPT
    Distance Consulting
    "Assistance at a Distance"
    nickols@att.net
    www.nickols.us


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  • 14.  A Confessed Regret

    Posted 07-21-2004 03:34
    This is an entertaining thread. I taught in Germany
    for a couple of years, and my office mate, a charming
    59-year-old accounting professor once commented to me,
    "The person most feared by the career academic is
    someone with 30 years business experience who just got
    a Ph.D."

    --- deborah nixon <deborahnixon@sympatico.ca> wrote:
    > Dear Fred: I concur with your view but I'm not
    > convinced that the answer
    > is to run out and get the degree. I am doing such a
    > thing after 25
    > years in the private sector and I must say that
    > having pursued the
    > degree has made me realize that it isn't all that
    > mysterious or
    > special. Often academic institutions try to protect
    > their own through
    > requiring membership in that small and exclusive
    > club called academia.
    > Yet many of the people I have taught beside for
    > years have little to no
    > practical experience and therefore have a
    > significant gap in their
    > learning. Feedback from students over the years has
    > always indicated
    > that students really value experience and the
    > ability to transcend
    > theory with real-life examples of where it works-
    > and where it doesn't.
    >
    > So, be proud of what you have accomplished. It is
    > the shortsightedness
    > and elitism of the academy that often freezes out
    > those with your
    > experience and wisdom. I don't know that there would
    > be a whole lot that
    > a Phd could teach you that you don't already know.
    > I guess you could
    > learn how to read all that horribly boring academic
    > literature- but why
    > would you want to do that????
    >
    > Collegially
    >
    > Deborah Nixon
    > University of Toronto
    > 704 Windermere Ave
    > Toronto Ont M6S 3M1
    > Ph: 416-763-6985
    > Fax: 416-763-3361
    >
    >
    >
    > -----Original Message-----
    > From: Management Education and Development
    > Discussion
    > [mailto:MG-ED-DV@MAELSTROM.STJOHNS.EDU] On Behalf Of
    > Fred Nickols
    > Sent: Tuesday, July 20, 2004 1:55 PM
    > To: MG-ED-DV@MAELSTROM.STJOHNS.EDU
    > Subject: A Confessed Regret
    >
    >
    > Another job posting for an associate professor made
    > its way into my
    > email in-box a short while ago. For some reason
    > this one triggered more
    > than a cursory scan and a quick trip to the delete
    > key. This time I sat
    > there, regretting my lack of educational
    > credentials. It saddened me
    > for a moment to think that I have learned so much
    > over the years that
    > can never be shared that way. What a waste.
    >
    > I have often maintained the fiction that the lack of
    > a college degree
    > (coupled with spending the first 20 years of my
    > working career in the
    > Navy) has never been a hindrance. But it is indeed
    > a fiction. True
    > enough, I have had a career that many with far
    > better credentials never
    > achieved and that some envy. However, forever
    > unanswered goes the
    > question: "What might I have accomplished had I been
    > armed with those
    > credentials?" I suspect my accomplishments might
    > have been much
    > greater.
    >
    > However, at 66 years of age, I have no intention of
    > remedying the
    > situation. Nor do I have any intention of wallowing
    > in regret. I just
    > thought I'd share a reflection with my better
    > educated colleagues and to
    > let you know I envy you the potential you enjoy and
    > that eludes me. I
    > hope you come to appreciate it as much as I do.
    >
    > Regards,
    >
    > Fred Nickols, CPT
    > Distance Consulting
    > "Assistance at a Distance"
    > nickols@att.net
    > www.nickols.us
    >

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    Faculty of Business, Auckland University of Technology
    Private Bag 1020
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  • 15.  A Confessed Regret

    Posted 07-21-2004 14:02
    I obtained an MBA after years of working and managing. I did not expect much, just wanted it as a kind of validation for claiming to be an organizational development trainer. That worked pretty well, and some of the courses were interesting, but I have to confess that I did not learn anything new, and some of it seemed irrelevant. Having been through five processes (degrees) by that time, I was not disillusioned, just amused. I am glad the MBA is now being questioned, and maybe some of us can have a part in the changes.

    Edryce

    Romie Littrell <littrellaom@yahoo.co.nz> wrote:
    This is an entertaining thread. I taught in Germany
    for a couple of years, and my office mate, a charming
    59-year-old accounting professor once commented to me,
    "The person most feared by the career academic is
    someone with 30 years business experience who just got
    a Ph.D."

    --- deborah nixon wrote:
    > Dear Fred: I concur with your view but I'm not
    > convinced that the answer
    > is to run out and get the degree. I am doing such a
    > thing after 25
    > years in the private sector and I must say that
    > having pursued the
    > degree has made me realize that it isn't all that
    > mysterious or
    > special. Often academic institutions try to protect
    > their own through
    > requiring membership in that small and exclusive
    > club called academia.
    > Yet many of the people I have taught beside for
    > years have little to no
    > practical experience and therefore have a
    > significant gap in their
    > learning. Feedback from students over the years has
    > always indicated
    > that students really value experience and the
    > ability to transcend
    > theory with real-life examples of where it works-
    > and where it doesn't.
    >
    > So, be proud of what you have accomplished. It is
    > the shortsightedness
    > and elitism of the academy that often freezes out
    > those with your
    > experience and wisdom. I don't know that there would
    > be a whole lot that
    > a Phd could teach you that you don't already know.
    > I guess you could
    > learn how to read all that horribly boring academic
    > literature- but why
    > would you want to do that????
    >
    > Collegially
    >
    > Deborah Nixon
    > University of Toronto
    > 704 Windermere Ave
    > Toronto Ont M6S 3M1
    > Ph: 416-763-6985
    > Fax: 416-763-3361
    >
    >
    >
    > -----Original Message-----
    > From: Management Education and Development
    > Discussion
    > [mailto:MG-ED-DV@MAELSTROM.STJOHNS.EDU] On Behalf Of
    > Fred Nickols
    > Sent: Tuesday, July 20, 2004 1:55 PM
    > To: MG-ED-DV@MAELSTROM.STJOHNS.EDU
    > Subject: A Confessed Regret
    >
    >
    > Another job posting for an associate professor made
    > its way into my
    > email in-box a short while ago. For some reason
    > this one triggered more
    > than a cursory scan and a quick trip to the delete
    > key. This time I sat
    > there, regretting my lack of educational
    > credentials. It saddened me
    > for a moment to think that I have learned so much
    > over the years that
    > can never be shared that way. What a waste.
    >
    > I have often maintained the fiction that the lack of
    > a college degree
    > (coupled with spending the first 20 years of my
    > working career in the
    > Navy) has never been a hindrance. But it is indeed
    > a fiction. True
    > enough, I have had a career that many with far
    > better credentials never
    > achieved and that some envy. However, forever
    > unanswered goes the
    > question: "What might I have accomplished had I been
    > armed with those
    > credentials?" I suspect my accomplishments might
    > have been much
    > greater.
    >
    > However, at 66 years of age, I have no intention of
    > remedying the
    > situation. Nor do I have any intention of wallowing
    > in regret. I just
    > thought I'd share a reflection with my better
    > educated colleagues and to
    > let you know I envy you the potential you enjoy and
    > that eludes me. I
    > hope you come to appreciate it as much as I do.
    >
    > Regards,
    >
    > Fred Nickols, CPT
    > Distance Consulting
    > "Assistance at a Distance"
    > nickols@att.net
    > www.nickols.us
    >

    =====
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    Faculty of Business, Auckland University of Technology
    Private Bag 1020
    Auckland 1020, New Zealand
    Fax (64) 9 - 917 -9629
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  • 16.  A Confessed Regret

    Posted 07-20-2004 16:16
    From: hamid etemad [mailto:hamid.etemad@mcgill.ca]

    Dear Fred:

    Your open note struck a deep note with me.
    I do not think it is too late for you to "add another feather to your cap".
    Educational institutions should love to have the depth of your experience in
    their midst, even while you are acquiring the Ph.D. and thus removing your
    "regret".

    Naturally, I second Ralph Hanke's suggestion.

    Kind Regards,
    Hamid Etemad

    -----Original Message-----
    From: Management Education and Development Discussion
    [mailto:MG-ED-DV@MAELSTROM.STJOHNS.EDU] On Behalf Of Ralph Hanke
    Sent: Tuesday, July 20, 2004 2:13 PM
    To: MG-ED-DV@MAELSTROM.STJOHNS.EDU
    Subject: Re: A Confessed Regret


    Dear Fred,

    Perhaps now is the time for you to do graduate work and share your hard
    earned knowledge through some thoughtful writings. Given your age and, I
    presume, financial security, you don't have to rush through the process.
    Yet, it seems to me you could write a hell of a dissertation and some
    interesting articles.

    Respectfully,

    Ralph



    On Jul 20, 2004, at 1:54 PM, Fred Nickols wrote:

    > Another job posting for an associate professor made its way into my
    > email in-box a short while ago. For some reason this one triggered
    > more than a
    > cursory scan and a quick trip to the delete key. This time I sat
    > there,
    > regretting my lack of educational credentials. It saddened me for a
    > moment
    > to think that I have learned so much over the years that can never be
    > shared
    > that way. What a waste.
    >
    > I have often maintained the fiction that the lack of a college degree
    > (coupled with spending the first 20 years of my working career in the
    > Navy)
    > has never been a hindrance. But it is indeed a fiction. True enough,
    > I have had a career that many with far better credentials never
    > achieved and
    > that some envy. However, forever unanswered goes the question: "What
    > might
    > I have accomplished had I been armed with those credentials?" I
    > suspect my
    > accomplishments might have been much greater.
    >
    > However, at 66 years of age, I have no intention of remedying the
    > situation. Nor do I have any intention of wallowing in regret. I just
    > thought I'd share a reflection with my better educated colleagues and
    > to let you know I
    > envy you the potential you enjoy and that eludes me. I hope you come
    > to
    > appreciate it as much as I do.
    >
    > Regards,
    >
    > Fred Nickols, CPT
    > Distance Consulting
    > "Assistance at a Distance"
    > nickols@att.net
    > www.nickols.us
    >


  • 17.  A Confessed Regret

    Posted 07-22-2004 06:11
    From: R Ramamurthy [mailto:rramxx@vsnl.com]

    Edryce,

    I can call myself more "senior" at the present age of 69. I also have a
    regret similar to yours but I overcome it by doing something which is under
    my control and still fulfils the desire to usefully utilise the expertise
    acquired over the years. My interest is in TQM and also writing. I use them
    both by publishing a fortnightly newsletter for the use of working
    executives interested in advances in TQM and I price it at only such a level
    that I do not go out of pocket. I also provide occasional free-lance
    consultancy in TQM, ISO 9000, ISO 14000 and HACCP so that I keep myself
    active. I continue to attend training sessions on the subjects, the latest
    was just two weeks back on Business Excellence Award, based on EQA and
    MBNQA.

    The case of my elder brother may be of interest too. At the age of 68 and
    after retiring as the Chairman & Managing Director of a group of Collieries
    producing about 20% of India's coal output, he attended classes (with his
    hearing aid firmly in place) to qualify in BCA (Bachelor of Computer
    Applications). After completing it in about 3 years, he went on to do a
    course in Oracle.

    I guess we have keep our interest alive by whatever innovative method we can
    devise.

    R.Ramamurthy
    Banglaore, India

    ----- Original Message -----
    From: "Edryce Reynolds" <edryce@yahoo.com>
    > My right place would be an institution (which could be anywhere
    geographically) which would be willing to put me on as an instructor while I
    defined several research projects. Never have I been in such a role, so I am
    unskilled at seeking it. I have never functioned in an ongoing "academic"
    environment, never held the "professor" title, and it's not customary for
    someone to begin a life of research this late. (Okay, I'm almost saying
    it - "senior")


  • 18.  A Confessed Regret

    Posted 07-22-2004 08:22
    I admire all of you "seniors" (sorry Edryce-can you give me something
    that identifies your unique age without insulting you. Middle age makes
    me cringe- but I have to accept the chronological truth). You are
    active, vibrant, contributing and have a genuine love of learning. I
    hope that I still have your energy at that age.

    There are many places to share your wealth of experience- and WISDOM.
    Wisdom lacks in academe and yet those of you who have written have that
    in spades. I think that is much more valuable than the multitudes of
    theories one can cite. Most theory is pretty boring anyway- and usually
    feels really disconnected from the 'outside' world without the wisdom of
    experience and years of living to go with it.

    Hats off to all of you!

    Collegially

    Deborah Nixon
    University of Toronto
    704 Windermere Ave
    Toronto Ont M6S 3M1
    Ph: 416-763-6985
    Fax: 416-763-3361



    -----Original Message-----
    From: Management Education and Development Discussion
    [mailto:MG-ED-DV@MAELSTROM.STJOHNS.EDU] On Behalf Of Charles Wankel
    Sent: Thursday, July 22, 2004 6:11 AM
    To: MG-ED-DV@MAELSTROM.STJOHNS.EDU
    Subject: Re: A Confessed Regret


    From: R Ramamurthy [mailto:rramxx@vsnl.com]

    Edryce,

    I can call myself more "senior" at the present age of 69. I also have a
    regret similar to yours but I overcome it by doing something which is
    under my control and still fulfils the desire to usefully utilise the
    expertise acquired over the years. My interest is in TQM and also
    writing. I use them both by publishing a fortnightly newsletter for the
    use of working executives interested in advances in TQM and I price it
    at only such a level that I do not go out of pocket. I also provide
    occasional free-lance consultancy in TQM, ISO 9000, ISO 14000 and HACCP
    so that I keep myself active. I continue to attend training sessions on
    the subjects, the latest was just two weeks back on Business Excellence
    Award, based on EQA and MBNQA.

    The case of my elder brother may be of interest too. At the age of 68
    and after retiring as the Chairman & Managing Director of a group of
    Collieries producing about 20% of India's coal output, he attended
    classes (with his hearing aid firmly in place) to qualify in BCA
    (Bachelor of Computer Applications). After completing it in about 3
    years, he went on to do a course in Oracle.

    I guess we have keep our interest alive by whatever innovative method we
    can devise.

    R.Ramamurthy
    Banglaore, India

    ----- Original Message -----
    From: "Edryce Reynolds" <edryce@yahoo.com>
    > My right place would be an institution (which could be anywhere
    geographically) which would be willing to put me on as an instructor
    while I defined several research projects. Never have I been in such a
    role, so I am unskilled at seeking it. I have never functioned in an
    ongoing "academic" environment, never held the "professor" title, and
    it's not customary for someone to begin a life of research this late.
    (Okay, I'm almost saying it - "senior")


  • 19.  A Confessed Regret

    Posted 07-22-2004 12:08
    Deborah,

    You are very kind, and I know it's inconvenient for someone not to like the label of "senior" or "middle age," which I also dislike. I believe that we should stop categorizing one another on age (among other characteristics), because it really (especially in today's world) is irrelevant. Some quite young people have had more experience than those much older than they - yet that experience is often not considered adequately because of the chronological age. I remember the story about someone having one year of experience over and over for their entire working life, and someone else who could get a lifetime of experience in one year. That is my objection; I do not object to being the age that I am - that is not it. I object to the way we profile one another. My guidance is that if I want something to change, I start by doing it myself.

    As for "wisdom," I also dislike the assumption (you did not make this assumption) that because someone has lived a certain number of years, they automatically have "wisdom." I have taught very young people who have quite a bit of unrecognized wisdom. This is all part of what I want to change.

    It is amazing how a personality comes through these words on a screen. You come across to me as a vibrant, intelligent person with a lot to offer the world. I hope the world is appreciating you!

    Edryce

    deborah nixon <deborahnixon@sympatico.ca> wrote:
    I admire all of you "seniors" (sorry Edryce-can you give me something
    that identifies your unique age without insulting you. Middle age makes
    me cringe- but I have to accept the chronological truth). You are
    active, vibrant, contributing and have a genuine love of learning. I
    hope that I still have your energy at that age.

    There are many places to share your wealth of experience- and WISDOM.
    Wisdom lacks in academe and yet those of you who have written have that
    in spades. I think that is much more valuable than the multitudes of
    theories one can cite. Most theory is pretty boring anyway- and usually
    feels really disconnected from the 'outside' world without the wisdom of
    experience and years of living to go with it.

    Hats off to all of you!

    Collegially

    Deborah Nixon
    University of Toronto
    704 Windermere Ave
    Toronto Ont M6S 3M1
    Ph: 416-763-6985
    Fax: 416-763-3361



    -----Original Message-----
    From: Management Education and Development Discussion
    [mailto:MG-ED-DV@MAELSTROM.STJOHNS.EDU] On Behalf Of Charles Wankel
    Sent: Thursday, July 22, 2004 6:11 AM
    To: MG-ED-DV@MAELSTROM.STJOHNS.EDU
    Subject: Re: A Confessed Regret


    From: R Ramamurthy [mailto:rramxx@vsnl.com]

    Edryce,

    I can call myself more "senior" at the present age of 69. I also have a
    regret similar to yours but I overcome it by doing something which is
    under my control and still fulfils the desire to usefully utilise the
    expertise acquired over the years. My interest is in TQM and also
    writing. I use them both by publishing a fortnightly newsletter for the
    use of working executives interested in advances in TQM and I price it
    at only such a level that I do not go out of pocket. I also provide
    occasional free-lance consultancy in TQM, ISO 9000, ISO 14000 and HACCP
    so that I keep myself active. I continue to attend training sessions on
    the subjects, the latest was just two weeks back on Business Excellence
    Award, based on EQA and MBNQA.

    The case of my elder brother may be of interest too. At the age of 68
    and after retiring as the Chairman & Managing Director of a group of
    Collieries producing about 20% of India's coal output, he attended
    classes (with his hearing aid firmly in place) to qualify in BCA
    (Bachelor of Computer Applications). After completing it in about 3
    years, he went on to do a course in Oracle.

    I guess we have keep our interest alive by whatever innovative method we
    can devise.

    R.Ramamurthy
    Banglaore, India

    ----- Original Message -----
    From: "Edryce Reynolds"
    > My right place would be an institution (which could be anywhere
    geographically) which would be willing to put me on as an instructor
    while I defined several research projects. Never have I been in such a
    role, so I am unskilled at seeking it. I have never functioned in an
    ongoing "academic" environment, never held the "professor" title, and
    it's not customary for someone to begin a life of research this late.
    (Okay, I'm almost saying it - "senior")


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