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  • 1.  Universal Value?

    Posted 04-09-2009 19:01
    In keeping with the values discussion, here's a portion from the "Bucking the System" article I mentioned a week or so ago.


    **** Begin Segment ****


    Code of Conduct

    A code of conduct is a set of ethical standards, yardsticks against which the goodness of behavior can be compared. A code of conduct prescribes and proscribes behavior. It is concerned with what is right and wrong in human conduct.

    The elements in a code of conduct might be stated in terms of things one should do, as in “Honor thy father and mother” or things one should not do, as in “Thou shalt not kill.”

    The Ten Commandments, of course, comprise a code of conduct. So does the golden rule: “Therefore all things whatsoever ye would that men should do to you, do ye even so to them: for this is the law and the prophets” (Matthew 7:12).

    Granted, there are differences in what people deem polite or impolite, proper or improper, and socially acceptable or unacceptable. But these are superficial differences. At the core issue of what is right and what is wrong, there is remarkable congruence across time, culture, and religion. Consider, for example, the golden rule as it is found outside of Christianity:

    • From Judaism’s Talmud: “What is hateful to you, do not to your fellowmen. That is the entire Law; all the rest is commentary.”

    • From Brahmanism’s Mahabharata: “This is the sum of duty: Do naught unto others which would cause you pain if done to you.”

    • From Buddhism’s Udana-Varga: “Hurt not others in ways that you yourself would find hurtful.”

    • From Confucianism’s Analects: “Surely it is the maxim of loving-kindness: Do not unto others that you would not have them do unto you.”

    • From Taoism’s T’ai Shang Kan Ying P’ien: Regard your neighbor’s gain as your own gain, and your neighbor’s loss as your own loss.”

    • From Zoroastrianism’s Dadistan-i-dinik: “That nature alone is good which refrains from doing unto another whatsoever is not good for itself.”

    • From Islam’s Sunnah: “No one of you is a believer until he desires for his brother that which he desires for himself.”


    **** End of Segment ****


    It would seem that there is at least one almost universal view of one aspect of human behavior. I don't know if it qualifies as a "value" or not but it seems close.


    --
    Regards,

    Fred Nickols
    Managing Partner
    Distance Consulting, LLC
    nickols@att.net
    www.nickols.us

    "Assistance at A Distance"


  • 2.  Universal Value?

    Posted 04-09-2009 23:03
    It is wonderful to see the discourse on this listserv elevated to a degree that arouses our passions. My perspective on values and codes of conduct take a more radical view, influenced by my studies of Buddhism and thinkers such as Ernest Becker, Ken Wilber, and Erich Fromm. You quote, " A code of conduct prescribes and proscribes behavior. It is concerned with what is right and wrong in human conduct."
    My critique of this is that Capitalism has become a religion in our culture. Tillich defined religion beautifully as "man's ultimate concern". Rules and codes exist to entrench taboos against forces seeking to exercise democratic values and offer alternatives to the hypnosis of the social conditioning which our educational institutions serve. The premise of this discussion appears to accept the mythology of capitalism as truth.
    Essentially, the narcissistic human animal creates meaning along with corresponding symbols, ritual, heros, sacred texts, and taboos. We assuage the terror of death through culturally created immortality ideologies "the invisible hand".. The rules and codes of conduct, absolutes of right and wrong, seek to protect this "religion" from scrutiny. If these rules and codes were more accepting of pluralism, democratic values, and criticism, academic institutions would feel less protective of their own immortality projects and an integral philosophy that embraces synthesis as opposed to the tytpe of attacks typical of university professors (your crosscultural documentation of the Golden Rule being a most welcome exception), may help us educate the next generation and avoid the fate that buried the Roman Empire.

    With respect,
    Alan Chipetine
    Assistant Principal
    Syosset High School
    Syosset, NY 11725

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    In keeping with the values discussion, here's a portion from the "Bucking the System" article I mentioned a week or so ago.


    **** Begin Segment ****


    Code of Conduct

    A code of conduct is a set of ethical standards, yardsticks against which the goodness of behavior can be compared. A code of conduct prescribes and proscribes behavior. It is concerned with what is right and wrong in human conduct.

    The elements in a code of conduct might be stated in terms of things one should do, as in “Honor thy father and mother” or things one should not do, as in “Thou shalt not kill.”

    The Ten Commandments, of course, comprise a code of conduct. So does the golden rule: “Therefore all things whatsoever ye would that men should do to you, do ye even so to them: for this is the law and the prophets” (Matthew 7:12).

    Granted, there are differences in what people deem polite or impolite, proper or improper, and socially acceptable or unacceptable. But these are superficial differences. At the core issue of what is right and what is wrong, there is remarkable congruence across time, culture, and religion. Consider, for example, the golden rule as it is found outside of Christianity:

    • From Judaism’s Talmud: “What is hateful to you, do not to your fellowmen. That is the entire Law; all the rest is commentary.”

    • From Brahmanism’s Mahabharata: “This is the sum of duty: Do naught unto others which would cause you pain if done to you.”

    • From Buddhism’s Udana-Varga: “Hurt not others in ways that you yourself would find hurtful.”

    • From Confucianism’s Analects: “Surely it is the maxim of loving-kindness: Do not unto others that you would not have them do unto you.”

    • From Taoism’s T’ai Shang Kan Ying P’ien: Regard your neighbor’s gain as your own gain, and your neighbor’s loss as your own loss.”

    • From Zoroastrianism’s Dadistan-i-dinik: “That nature alone is good which refrains from doing unto another whatsoever is not good for itself.”

    • From Islam’s Sunnah: “No one of you is a believer until he desires for his brother that which he desires for himself.”


    **** End of Segment ****


    It would seem that there is at least one almost universal view of one aspect of human behavior. I don't know if it qualifies as a "value" or not but it seems close.


    --
    Regards,

    Fred Nickols
    Managing Partner
    Distance Consulting, LLC
    nickols@att.net
    www.nickols.us

    "Assistance at A Distance"


  • 3.  Universal Value?

    Posted 04-09-2009 23:43
    The complement to Code of Behavior is the Standard of Care.
    Whereas the former deals with behavior the latter deals with results ---
    what's left after behavior has completed.
    The main difference is that results can be measured whereas behaviors
    cannot.
    It is the old Means vs. Ends gambit in different semantics.
    Those who opt for Code of Ethics clearly signal that they do not want to be
    measured.
    Jack Ring

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    Subject: Universal Value?


    > In keeping with the values discussion, here's a portion from the "Bucking
    > the System" article I mentioned a week or so ago.
    >
    >
    > **** Begin Segment ****
    >
    >
    > Code of Conduct
    >
    > A code of conduct is a set of ethical standards, yardsticks against which
    > the goodness of behavior can be compared. A code of conduct prescribes
    > and proscribes behavior. It is concerned with what is right and wrong in
    > human conduct.
    >
    > The elements in a code of conduct might be stated in terms of things one
    > should do, as in “Honor thy father and mother” or things one should not
    > do, as in “Thou shalt not kill.”
    >
    > The Ten Commandments, of course, comprise a code of conduct. So does the
    > golden rule: “Therefore all things whatsoever ye would that men should do
    > to you, do ye even so to them: for this is the law and the prophets”
    > (Matthew 7:12).
    >
    > Granted, there are differences in what people deem polite or impolite,
    > proper or improper, and socially acceptable or unacceptable. But these
    > are superficial differences. At the core issue of what is right and what
    > is wrong, there is remarkable congruence across time, culture, and
    > religion. Consider, for example, the golden rule as it is found outside
    > of Christianity:
    >
    > • From Judaism’s Talmud: “What is hateful to you, do not to your
    > fellowmen. That is the entire Law; all the rest is commentary.”
    >
    > • From Brahmanism’s Mahabharata: “This is the sum of duty: Do naught
    > unto others which would cause you pain if done to you.”
    >
    > • From Buddhism’s Udana-Varga: “Hurt not others in ways that you yourself
    > would find hurtful.”
    >
    > • From Confucianism’s Analects: “Surely it is the maxim of
    > loving-kindness: Do not unto others that you would not have them do unto
    > you.”
    >
    > • From Taoism’s T’ai Shang Kan Ying P’ien: Regard your neighbor’s gain as
    > your own gain, and your neighbor’s loss as your own loss.”
    >
    > • From Zoroastrianism’s Dadistan-i-dinik: “That nature alone is good
    > which refrains from doing unto another whatsoever is not good for itself.”
    >
    > • From Islam’s Sunnah: “No one of you is a believer until he desires for
    > his brother that which he desires for himself.”
    >
    >
    > **** End of Segment ****
    >
    >
    > It would seem that there is at least one almost universal view of one
    > aspect of human behavior. I don't know if it qualifies as a "value" or
    > not but it seems close.
    >
    >
    > --
    > Regards,
    >
    > Fred Nickols
    > Managing Partner
    > Distance Consulting, LLC
    > nickols@att.net
    > www.nickols.us
    >
    > "Assistance at A Distance"
    >


  • 4.  Universal Value?

    Posted 04-10-2009 00:39
    Colleagues,

    If we choose to think about "universal values", then let's not constrain
    ourselves to Earth. The following is part of a speech in Invitation to
    Space, by copyright by Gary Michael Lundquist, 2007. All rights reserved.

    Values
    Community of Humans

    No weapons, No evangelism,
    No blaming, No righteousness

    We are all:

    HUMANS. One species in a universe of species. Before gender, race,
    nationality, economics, beliefs, or power, we are all Human.
    Earthlings. One species among billions inhabiting our planet. Before
    greed, power, hunger, and even simple survival, we are all stewards of our
    natural environment.

    SENTIENTS. Great thinkers in a universe of great thinkers. Before hate,
    violence, war, and mutually assured destruction, we are all capable of
    ongoing learning and critical thinking.

    SPIRITUAL. In touch with something much greater than ourselves. Beyond
    choice of belief or way of worship, we can all engage our natural
    spirituality to find personal peace.

    CHANGE AGENTS. Natural innovators in a universe where conscious innovation
    is rare and special. Before competition, the thrill of success, and
    financial rewards, we can all work to ensure that our changes benefit
    Humanity over the long term.

    IMMATURE. A very young species lacking perspectives needed to manage our
    civilization and its rapid change. Beyond daily striving and achieving, we
    can all seek to become ever more conscious as individuals, organizations,
    nations, and a global civilization.

    RESPONSIBLE. People and organizations in charge of our collective future.
    Beyond the temptations of being right and feeling righteousness, we can all
    make conscious choices to put away our weapons, restrain our evangelism,
    stop blaming, and start accepting our shared responsibility for peace for
    everyone on Earth.

    AT TERRIBLE RISK. Enmeshed in dramatically accelerating change resisted
    fiercely by some population segments. To avoid the risks of terrorism
    forever, ecological disaster, nuclear war, and systems wars with our own
    machines, we must all learn how to guide change toward positive, peaceful,
    ecologically respectful ends.
    -----------------------
    Though not a list of values, the implications may be worth your time.

    Best,

    Gary


    ...........................................
    Gary Lundquist
    Director@InnoSearchColorado.com

    Colorado Resources*for Innovation
    303-840-9929*
    ...........................................
    GaryL@Market-Engineering.com
    Innovation of Business and
    the Business of InnovationT


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    Subject: Universal Value?


    In keeping with the values discussion, here's a portion from the "Bucking
    the System" article I mentioned a week or so ago.


    **** Begin Segment ****


    Code of Conduct

    A code of conduct is a set of ethical standards, yardsticks against which
    the goodness of behavior can be compared. A code of conduct prescribes and
    proscribes behavior. It is concerned with what is right and wrong in human
    conduct.

    The elements in a code of conduct might be stated in terms of things one
    should do, as in "Honor thy father and mother" or things one should not do,
    as in "Thou shalt not kill."

    The Ten Commandments, of course, comprise a code of conduct. So does the
    golden rule: "Therefore all things whatsoever ye would that men should do to
    you, do ye even so to them: for this is the law and the prophets" (Matthew
    7:12).

    Granted, there are differences in what people deem polite or impolite,
    proper or improper, and socially acceptable or unacceptable. But these are
    superficial differences. At the core issue of what is right and what is
    wrong, there is remarkable congruence across time, culture, and religion.
    Consider, for example, the golden rule as it is found outside of
    Christianity:

    . From Judaism's Talmud: "What is hateful to you, do not to your
    fellowmen. That is the entire Law; all the rest is commentary."

    . From Brahmanism's Mahabharata: "This is the sum of duty: Do naught
    unto others which would cause you pain if done to you."

    . From Buddhism's Udana-Varga: "Hurt not others in ways that you
    yourself would find hurtful."

    . From Confucianism's Analects: "Surely it is the maxim of
    loving-kindness: Do not unto others that you would not have them do unto
    you."

    . From Taoism's T'ai Shang Kan Ying P'ien: Regard your neighbor's
    gain as your own gain, and your neighbor's loss as your own loss."

    . From Zoroastrianism's Dadistan-i-dinik: "That nature alone is good
    which refrains from doing unto another whatsoever is not good for itself."

    . From Islam's Sunnah: "No one of you is a believer until he desires
    for his brother that which he desires for himself."


    **** End of Segment ****


    It would seem that there is at least one almost universal view of one aspect
    of human behavior. I don't know if it qualifies as a "value" or not but it
    seems close.


    --
    Regards,

    Fred Nickols
    Managing Partner
    Distance Consulting, LLC
    nickols@att.net
    www.nickols.us

    "Assistance at A Distance"


  • 5.  Universal Value?

    Posted 04-10-2009 00:55
    Thanks for this Fred.  I've always found it amazing and personally comforting how the Golden Rule pops up in so many faith systems.  Decency rules!

    I do make a small distinction between the Golden Rule which I consider a positive rule to DO to others what we want done to us versus what has been called the Silver Rule which is a negative rule NOT TO DO to others what we don't want done to us.  Going through your list, some are Gold and most are Silver.  I prefer the Golden version myself, the Christian and Islam versions, it appears.  I think that it is important to actively treat others well.

    Nowadays, I worry that a new rule is creeping into the center of things which I have dubbed as the Black Rule:  "Stick it to others before they stick it to you."  What do you all think?  Is common decency hopelessly passe?
     
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    From: "nickols@att.net" <nickols@att.net>
    To: MG-ED-DV@AOMLISTS.PACE.EDU
    Sent: Friday, April 10, 2009 7:01:13 AM
    Subject: Universal Value?

    In keeping with the values discussion, here's a portion from the "Bucking the System" article I mentioned a week or so ago.


    **** Begin Segment ****


    Code of Conduct

    A code of conduct is a set of ethical standards, yardsticks against which the goodness of behavior can be compared.  A code of conduct prescribes and proscribes behavior.  It is concerned with what is right and wrong in human conduct. 

    The elements in a code of conduct might be stated in terms of things one should do, as in "Honor thy father and mother" or things one should not do, as in "Thou shalt not kill." 

    The Ten Commandments, of course, comprise a code of conduct.  So does the golden rule: "Therefore all things whatsoever ye would that men should do to you, do ye even so to them: for this is the law and the prophets" (Matthew 7:12).

    Granted, there are differences in what people deem polite or impolite, proper or improper, and socially acceptable or unacceptable.  But these are superficial differences.  At the core issue of what is right and what is wrong, there is remarkable congruence across time, culture, and religion.  Consider, for example, the golden rule as it is found outside of Christianity:

    •    From Judaism's Talmud:  "What is hateful to you, do not to your fellowmen.  That is the entire Law; all the rest is commentary."

    •    From Brahmanism's Mahabharata:  "This is the sum of duty:  Do naught unto others which would cause you pain if done to you."

    •    From Buddhism's Udana-Varga:  "Hurt not others in ways that you yourself would find hurtful."

    •    From Confucianism's Analects:  "Surely it is the maxim of loving-kindness:  Do not unto others that you would not have them do unto you."

    •    From Taoism's T'ai Shang Kan Ying P'ien:  Regard your neighbor's gain as your own gain, and your neighbor's loss as your own loss."

    •    From Zoroastrianism's Dadistan-i-dinik:  "That nature alone is good which refrains from doing unto another whatsoever is not good for itself."

    •    From Islam's Sunnah:  "No one of you is a believer until he desires for his brother that which he desires for himself."


    **** End of Segment ****


    It would seem that there is at least one almost universal view of one aspect of human behavior.  I don't know if it qualifies as a "value" or not but it seems close.


    --
    Regards,

    Fred Nickols
    Managing Partner
    Distance Consulting, LLC
    nickols@att.net
    www.nickols.us

    "Assistance at A Distance"



  • 6.  Universal Value?

    Posted 04-10-2009 03:10
    Alan,
    Think you for the thoughtful critique. It may be useful to look at the
    situation from the other side of the mirror.

    Perhaps the current religion is anti-capitalism. Its crusaders are quite
    visible at each G8 or G20 summit. Also it is thriving in universities thus
    typically lagging the real world by 20 years or so. The 20 year lag is
    marked by capitalism, the substitution of capital for labor, becoming passé
    two decades ago as we started learning how to substitute know-how for
    energy. eK=mc**2.

    The record shows that the universal threat is GREED. We would be well
    advised to put more thought into the mediation of greed, especially from the
    roots up.

    One of the attempts in this direction has been to eschew the Greek
    experiment with democracy in favor of a representative republic. Not a
    complete solution, apparently, but far better than all other forms on space
    ship Earth.

    Regarding the business domain, the VISA Corp. in the days of Dee Hock et al,
    demonstrated how well citizens could be served. c.f., Birth of the Chaordic
    Age. Note, however, that he was convinced that such system could not be
    propagated earth-wide because on one BIG factor. Care to guess?
    Onward,
    Jack Ring

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    To: <MG-ED-DV@AOMLISTS.PACE.EDU>
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    Subject: Re: Universal Value?


    > It is wonderful to see the discourse on this listserv elevated to a
    > degree that arouses our passions. My perspective on values and codes of
    > conduct take a more radical view, influenced by my studies of Buddhism and
    > thinkers such as Ernest Becker, Ken Wilber, and Erich Fromm. You quote,
    > " A code of conduct prescribes and proscribes behavior. It is concerned
    > with what is right and wrong in human conduct."
    > My critique of this is that Capitalism has become a religion in our
    > culture. Tillich defined religion beautifully as "man's ultimate
    > concern". Rules and codes exist to entrench taboos against forces seeking
    > to exercise democratic values and offer alternatives to the hypnosis of
    > the social conditioning which our educational institutions serve. The
    > premise of this discussion appears to accept the mythology of capitalism
    > as truth.
    > Essentially, the narcissistic human animal creates meaning along with
    > corresponding symbols, ritual, heros, sacred texts, and taboos. We
    > assuage the terror of death through culturally created immortality
    > ideologies "the invisible hand".. The rules and codes of conduct,
    > absolutes of right and wrong, seek to protect this "religion" from
    > scrutiny. If these rules and codes were more accepting of pluralism,
    > democratic values, and criticism, academic institutions would feel less
    > protective of their own immortality projects and an integral philosophy
    > that embraces synthesis as opposed to the tytpe of attacks typical of
    > university professors (your crosscultural documentation of the Golden Rule
    > being a most welcome exception), may help us educate the next generation
    > and avoid the fate that buried the Roman Empire.
    >
    > With respect,
    > Alan Chipetine
    > Assistant Principal
    > Syosset High School
    > Syosset, NY 11725
    >
    > Sent via BlackBerry by AT&T
    >
    > -----Original Message-----
    > From: "nickols@att.net" <nickols@att.net>
    >
    > Date: Thu, 9 Apr 2009 19:01:13
    > To: MG-ED-DV@AOMLISTS.PACE.EDU<MG-ED-DV@AOMLISTS.PACE.EDU>
    > Subject: Universal Value?
    >
    >
    > In keeping with the values discussion, here's a portion from the "Bucking
    > the System" article I mentioned a week or so ago.
    >
    >
    > **** Begin Segment ****
    >
    >
    > Code of Conduct
    >
    > A code of conduct is a set of ethical standards, yardsticks against which
    > the goodness of behavior can be compared. A code of conduct prescribes
    > and proscribes behavior. It is concerned with what is right and wrong in
    > human conduct.
    >
    > The elements in a code of conduct might be stated in terms of things one
    > should do, as in “Honor thy father and mother” or things one should not
    > do, as in “Thou shalt not kill.”
    >
    > The Ten Commandments, of course, comprise a code of conduct. So does the
    > golden rule: “Therefore all things whatsoever ye would that men should do
    > to you, do ye even so to them: for this is the law and the prophets”
    > (Matthew 7:12).
    >
    > Granted, there are differences in what people deem polite or impolite,
    > proper or improper, and socially acceptable or unacceptable. But these
    > are superficial differences. At the core issue of what is right and what
    > is wrong, there is remarkable congruence across time, culture, and
    > religion. Consider, for example, the golden rule as it is found outside
    > of Christianity:
    >
    > • From Judaism’s Talmud: “What is hateful to you, do not to your
    > fellowmen. That is the entire Law; all the rest is commentary.”
    >
    > • From Brahmanism’s Mahabharata: “This is the sum of duty: Do naught
    > unto others which would cause you pain if done to you.”
    >
    > • From Buddhism’s Udana-Varga: “Hurt not others in ways that you yourself
    > would find hurtful.”
    >
    > • From Confucianism’s Analects: “Surely it is the maxim of
    > loving-kindness: Do not unto others that you would not have them do unto
    > you.”
    >
    > • From Taoism’s T’ai Shang Kan Ying P’ien: Regard your neighbor’s gain as
    > your own gain, and your neighbor’s loss as your own loss.”
    >
    > • From Zoroastrianism’s Dadistan-i-dinik: “That nature alone is good
    > which refrains from doing unto another whatsoever is not good for itself.”
    >
    > • From Islam’s Sunnah: “No one of you is a believer until he desires for
    > his brother that which he desires for himself.”
    >
    >
    > **** End of Segment ****
    >
    >
    > It would seem that there is at least one almost universal view of one
    > aspect of human behavior. I don't know if it qualifies as a "value" or
    > not but it seems close.
    >
    >
    > --
    > Regards,
    >
    > Fred Nickols
    > Managing Partner
    > Distance Consulting, LLC
    > nickols@att.net
    > www.nickols.us
    >
    > "Assistance at A Distance"
    >


  • 7.  Universal Value?

    Posted 04-10-2009 07:56

    I once read an article in which the author (forgotten now) said that the Golden Rule was actually kind of arrogant ... that why should we assume that others want to be treated the way we do.  The Platinum Rule, he argued, was to treat people as they wish to be treated.  Which brings us back to relativism vs. absolutism.  Is it decent to assume that others want to be treated the way we want to be treated?  We assume in doing that our values/worldview/valuing/beliefs/expectations/assumptions are the accurate ones.  If I were in a hut in central Africa and a father were about to use a machete to circumcise his daughter because god and tradition told him to do so I don't think I could follow the Platinum Rule-could you?  How do instructors get/invite/encourage students to re-examine their underlying VABEs?  Okay, worldview if you insist.  If you and I had been born in Northern Pakistan or Central Africa or the former Yugoslavia, I think our worldviews (VABEs not cognitive structures) would be very different.  If they are as some suggest totally cemented by 20, there's no hope.  Csikszentmihalyi (The Evolving Self) says that the central question in life is whether one will ever be anything more than a vessel transmitting the genes and memes (VABEs/worldviews) on to the next generation.  It's a powerful question-and I agree, the central one.  His answer is that the vast majority of people will never be anything more than riders on the tips of spears thrown by previous generations.  In my experience asking thousands of country manager level executives face to face in Bangkok, Johannesburg, Cairo, Athens, Istanbul, London, Paris, Kobe, Sydney, Atlanta, New England, etc. is that on average they believe that in their experience the people they have known in life are 90-99+% habitual (unthinkingly repetitive) at the VABE/worldview/values level.   We can present people with those bits of information and invite them to consider if they are even willing to reconsider something they hold to be true (a VABE/value/worldview/valuing whatever).  Most are not.  There are a few though, Csikszentmihalyi calls them transcenders in that they are able to rise above their previous (insert your favorite theory/VABE/worldview/training/imprinting/scripting/conditioning) and accept a new view that drives behavior... in part if not in whole. 

     

    I have been surprised (shouldn't be I know) at what seems to me the significant differences on core concepts and the apparent disparagement/judgmentalism/labeling that keeps recurring in these conversations.  Kuhn again was right.  It takes a whole generation even among scientists trained to focus on data to let go of their VABEs/worldview/memes/.  What hope then do we have as the blond on stage said, of ever finding world peace or a theory of global management?  I know not (clearly) what path you may take, but as for me and my house, we will invite students to re-examine their semi-conscious, pre-conscious core values, assumptions, beliefs and expectations about the way the world is or should be.  Unless they can even address the possibility that their worldviews/VABEs might be dysfunctional (as opposed to wrong) whatever we do in life will be swallowed up by the ever expanding tide of humanity.

     

    I asked a Bahraini once who was telling me that Bahrain was the most open-minded, cosmopolitan, internationally sophisticated nation in the Middle East that since he was such a person, would he be willing to come in the next day with platinum blond dyed hair.  He about fell off his chair.  NO WAY.  Wait a minute, I said.  I have three daughters and they dye their hair almost weekly.  It has nothing to do with their ability to perform.  He thought a while, the wheels were turning (pre-conscious VABE) and then he said "Men don't do that."  He didn't say "Bahraini men don't do that" or "Muslim men don't do that." He said "MEN don't do that."  It's a VABE.  SO I asked him why?  Again, pause, wheels spinning, then finally, "I would be shunned."  And there it was-again-the tendency we have to live outside-in rather than inside-out and consequentially to conform rather than to lead.  When fitting in is more important than finding out what works in a larger context, then as Csikszentmihalyi wrote, the odds are we/they will be nothing more than riders on the tips of spears thrown by previous generations.  

     

       Jim

    James G. S. Clawson

    Johnson & Higgins Professor of Business Administration

    Darden GSB, University of Virginia

    Box 6550, Charlottesville, VA 22906  

    100 Darden Boulevard, Charlottesville, VA 22903  USA

    Tel:  434 924 7488              Fax:  434 243 7680

    Web:  http://faculty.darden.virginia.edu/clawsonj

     

    From: Management Education and Development Discussion [mailto:MG-ED-DV@AOMLISTS.PACE.EDU] On Behalf Of Ben Teehankee
    Sent: Friday, April 10, 2009 12:55 AM
    To: MG-ED-DV@AOMLISTS.PACE.EDU
    Subject: Re: Universal Value?

     

    Thanks for this Fred.  I've always found it amazing and personally comforting how the Golden Rule pops up in so many faith systems.  Decency rules!

    I do make a small distinction between the Golden Rule which I consider a positive rule to DO to others what we want done to us versus what has been called the Silver Rule which is a negative rule NOT TO DO to others what we don't want done to us.  Going through your list, some are Gold and most are Silver.  I prefer the Golden version myself, the Christian and Islam versions, it appears.  I think that it is important to actively treat others well.

    Nowadays, I worry that a new rule is creeping into the center of things which I have dubbed as the Black Rule:  "Stick it to others before they stick it to you."  What do you all think?  Is common decency hopelessly passe?

     

    -------------------------------
    Benito L. Teehankee, DBA
    Sen. Benigno S. Aquino Jr. associate professor in business and governance
    Ramon V. del Rosario Sr. Graduate School of Business
    De La Salle University
    Manila, Philippines
    Office: +632-5234295

     

     


    From: "nickols@att.net" <nickols@att.net>
    To: MG-ED-DV@AOMLISTS.PACE.EDU
    Sent: Friday, April 10, 2009 7:01:13 AM
    Subject: Universal Value?

    In keeping with the values discussion, here's a portion from the "Bucking the System" article I mentioned a week or so ago.


    **** Begin Segment ****


    Code of Conduct

    A code of conduct is a set of ethical standards, yardsticks against which the goodness of behavior can be compared.  A code of conduct prescribes and proscribes behavior.  It is concerned with what is right and wrong in human conduct. 

    The elements in a code of conduct might be stated in terms of things one should do, as in "Honor thy father and mother" or things one should not do, as in "Thou shalt not kill." 

    The Ten Commandments, of course, comprise a code of conduct.  So does the golden rule: "Therefore all things whatsoever ye would that men should do to you, do ye even so to them: for this is the law and the prophets" (Matthew 7:12).

    Granted, there are differences in what people deem polite or impolite, proper or improper, and socially acceptable or unacceptable.  But these are superficial differences.  At the core issue of what is right and what is wrong, there is remarkable congruence across time, culture, and religion.  Consider, for example, the golden rule as it is found outside of Christianity:

    •    From Judaism's Talmud:  "What is hateful to you, do not to your fellowmen.  That is the entire Law; all the rest is commentary."

    •    From Brahmanism's Mahabharata:  "This is the sum of duty:  Do naught unto others which would cause you pain if done to you."

    •    From Buddhism's Udana-Varga:  "Hurt not others in ways that you yourself would find hurtful."

    •    From Confucianism's Analects:  "Surely it is the maxim of loving-kindness:  Do not unto others that you would not have them do unto you."

    •    From Taoism's T'ai Shang Kan Ying P'ien:  Regard your neighbor's gain as your own gain, and your neighbor's loss as your own loss."

    •    From Zoroastrianism's Dadistan-i-dinik:  "That nature alone is good which refrains from doing unto another whatsoever is not good for itself."

    •    From Islam's Sunnah:  "No one of you is a believer until he desires for his brother that which he desires for himself."


    **** End of Segment ****


    It would seem that there is at least one almost universal view of one aspect of human behavior.  I don't know if it qualifies as a "value" or not but it seems close.


    --
    Regards,

    Fred Nickols
    Managing Partner
    Distance Consulting, LLC
    nickols@att.net
    www.nickols.us

    "Assistance at A Distance"

     



  • 8.  Universal Value?

    Posted 04-10-2009 08:28
    Mr. Ring,

    I continue to be nonplussed and set back as I read, react, and respond to your posts. I pulled up and read your on-line vita. I respect and admire what you have accomplished in life. Reading it, I had fond memories of summer weeks spent with my uncle in Emporia listening to the cicadas' constant chatter and bucking hay. I note your education and experience in systems engineering. I reflected on the many days I spent teaching in the Pit in GE-Crotonville.

    AND with all of that respect for your background, I personally am put off by your apparent tendency to make blanket, judgmental statements as if whatever comes out of your keyboard is truth. Albert Ellis' concept of E-Prime Language is clearly influencing me here. (attached) Like you, I'm past sixty and have grown tired of superficial BS conversations (an inference regarding yourself). That said, I find myself less and less sure of what we know. Eric Hoffer once noted that blessed are the learners for they shall inherit the earth while the learned shall find themselves increasingly suited for a world that no longer exists.

    I hesitated to write, and chose to do so, respectfully, because I believe that we model to others (over 900 in this listserv) how to be. Emerson once noted that what one does thunders so loudly in our ears we cannot hear what they say. My hope is that members of this listserv and of the MED and all AOM divisions would be open-minded, considerate, truth seeking, generous souls. I infer from comments like "time wounds all heels" and "those who opt for Code of Ethics clearly signal that they do not want to be measured" and "your lack of data is noted" to be demeaning, blanket statements with no basis whatsoever in my education or experience.

    We all have a different set of experiences, backgrounds, educations, and accomplishments. What I enjoy about functional discourse is what we can learn from that diversity. What I don't enjoy about dysfunctional discourse is blanket assumptions about truth and correctness. My invitation is that we might all speak with each other with a higher level of respect and consideration. And I don't believe that has anything to do with my willingness to be measured or not. My vita is available for all to see as well.

    I have friends in Scottsdale and go there on occasion. Perhaps next time I'm there, we can have lunch and I can look in your face and learn more. In the meantime, again, my invitation is that we raise the level of the conversation by

    1. Acknowledging that what we "know" is only what we value, assume, believe and expect to be true.
    2. Speaking to others in a respectful way that models to all who read a more "dialogue" (in the MIT/Senge sense) oriented way of social learning.
    3. Avoiding blanket statements of truth and rectitude.
    4. Avoiding demeaning judgments of others that adds a certain toxicity to the conversation.

    Respectfully,
    Jim
    James G. S. Clawson
    Johnson & Higgins Professor of Business Administration
    Darden GSB, University of Virginia
    Box 6550, Charlottesville, VA 22906
    100 Darden Boulevard, Charlottesville, VA 22903 USA
    Tel: 434 924 7488 Fax: 434 243 7680
    Web: http://faculty.darden.virginia.edu/clawsonj

    -----Original Message-----
    From: Management Education and Development Discussion [mailto:MG-ED-DV@AOMLISTS.PACE.EDU] On Behalf Of Jack Ring
    Sent: Thursday, April 09, 2009 11:43 PM
    To: MG-ED-DV@AOMLISTS.PACE.EDU
    Subject: Re: Universal Value?

    The complement to Code of Behavior is the Standard of Care.
    Whereas the former deals with behavior the latter deals with results ---
    what's left after behavior has completed.
    The main difference is that results can be measured whereas behaviors
    cannot.
    It is the old Means vs. Ends gambit in different semantics.
    Those who opt for Code of Ethics clearly signal that they do not want to be
    measured.
    Jack Ring

    ----- Original Message -----
    From: <nickols@att.net>
    To: <MG-ED-DV@AOMLISTS.PACE.EDU>
    Sent: Thursday, April 09, 2009 4:01 PM
    Subject: Universal Value?


    > In keeping with the values discussion, here's a portion from the "Bucking
    > the System" article I mentioned a week or so ago.
    >
    >
    > **** Begin Segment ****
    >
    >
    > Code of Conduct
    >
    > A code of conduct is a set of ethical standards, yardsticks against which
    > the goodness of behavior can be compared. A code of conduct prescribes
    > and proscribes behavior. It is concerned with what is right and wrong in
    > human conduct.
    >
    > The elements in a code of conduct might be stated in terms of things one
    > should do, as in “Honor thy father and mother” or things one should not
    > do, as in “Thou shalt not kill.”
    >
    > The Ten Commandments, of course, comprise a code of conduct. So does the
    > golden rule: “Therefore all things whatsoever ye would that men should do
    > to you, do ye even so to them: for this is the law and the prophets”
    > (Matthew 7:12).
    >
    > Granted, there are differences in what people deem polite or impolite,
    > proper or improper, and socially acceptable or unacceptable. But these
    > are superficial differences. At the core issue of what is right and what
    > is wrong, there is remarkable congruence across time, culture, and
    > religion. Consider, for example, the golden rule as it is found outside
    > of Christianity:
    >
    > • From Judaism’s Talmud: “What is hateful to you, do not to your
    > fellowmen. That is the entire Law; all the rest is commentary.”
    >
    > • From Brahmanism’s Mahabharata: “This is the sum of duty: Do naught
    > unto others which would cause you pain if done to you.”
    >
    > • From Buddhism’s Udana-Varga: “Hurt not others in ways that you yourself
    > would find hurtful.”
    >
    > • From Confucianism’s Analects: “Surely it is the maxim of
    > loving-kindness: Do not unto others that you would not have them do unto
    > you.”
    >
    > • From Taoism’s T’ai Shang Kan Ying P’ien: Regard your neighbor’s gain as
    > your own gain, and your neighbor’s loss as your own loss.”
    >
    > • From Zoroastrianism’s Dadistan-i-dinik: “That nature alone is good
    > which refrains from doing unto another whatsoever is not good for itself.”
    >
    > • From Islam’s Sunnah: “No one of you is a believer until he desires for
    > his brother that which he desires for himself.”
    >
    >
    > **** End of Segment ****
    >
    >
    > It would seem that there is at least one almost universal view of one
    > aspect of human behavior. I don't know if it qualifies as a "value" or
    > not but it seems close.
    >
    >
    > --
    > Regards,
    >
    > Fred Nickols
    > Managing Partner
    > Distance Consulting, LLC
    > nickols@att.net
    > www.nickols.us
    >
    > "Assistance at A Distance"
    >


  • 9.  Universal Value?

    Posted 04-10-2009 09:45
    Jack Ring writes:

    > The complement to Code of Behavior is the Standard of Care.
    > Whereas the former deals with behavior the latter deals with results ---
    > what's left after behavior has completed.
    > The main difference is that results can be measured whereas behaviors
    > cannot.
    > It is the old Means vs. Ends gambit in different semantics.
    > Those who opt for Code of Ethics clearly signal that they do not want to be
    > measured.

    Well, Jack, I share the importance you attach to results and I agree that there are lots of people who don't wish to be measured. However, I don't agree that behavior can't be measured nor do I agree with the blanket statement that results can be measured. I do agree that there is a means-end relationship between behavior and results and, by extension, it seems to me that, in some cases, influencing or controlling behavior is a pretty straight path to influencing or controlling results.

    By the way, do you mean something different from Code of Conduct when you use Code of Behavior?

    --
    Regards,

    Fred Nickols
    Managing Partner
    Distance Consulting, LLC
    nickols@att.net
    www.nickols.us

    "Assistance at A Distance"


  • 10.  Universal Value?

    Posted 04-13-2009 21:20
    Prof. Clawson,

    Interesting set of observations. Ingredients for lots of lemonade.

    In the interest of improved mutual understanding please consider the following ideas.

    First, I suggest that the content of all email forums be read as statements of opinion unless the author indicates otherwise such as by citing a reference.  A penchant on the reader's part of claiming 'your apparent tendency ..." only overloads the author's statement with reader's ladder of inference which usually confuses the situation.

    Second, thanks for including the paper. It was revealing. I encountered Korsybski's General Semantics (1926) several years ago and his careful contrasting of science and sanity. Also, I knew a little about E', so was intrigued by the paper. Then I was stunned by the first sentence, "Language is one of the primary tools of the effective leader." because it used 'is.' Also staring at me was "one of the primary' which I read as 'one of the best' (instead of one of the better). Overall, the first sentence treated language in the singular whereas I suspect an effective leader must be quite adept at a spoken language, the language of mathematics and body language to name only three languages (c.f., Derek Bickerton's Language and Human Behavior, U. Washington Press, 1995). Barely recovered I encountered the second sentence which announced the presumption of 'influencing others." Although you have the freedom to influence others I suggest that the principles of dialogue explicitly avoid influencing in favor of fostering understanding. Please do not read my posts as attempting to influence you or convince you of anything. I seek dialogue, not influence.
     
    Further, I understand from Bohm and others that crisp syllogisms are more conducive to 'meaning moving through' than are multi-stative examples from Ellis.
     
    The paper's third sentence, containing "...a concept first developed by the famous semanticist, Alfred Korzybski [...] namely "e-prime" language"
    didn't seem too strange until the last paragraph of the Appendix where I read,
    "Although Korzybski didn't specifically advocate the use of E‑prime, he did see its potential usefulness in minimizing what he called insanity ,,,"
    This struck me as odd because I thought Korsybski had died before E-prime was defined. 
    "D. David Bourland, Jr. (1928-2000) proposed E-Prime as an addition to Alfred Korzybski's General Semantics some years after Korzybski's death in 1950.
    Returning to your email message, please accept that what you infer from my posts belongs to you, not me.
    "Time wounds all heels" is a rather well known homily which I used to refer to those presumed qualified to govern. Meaning that their incompetencies will eventually emerge. How is that a demeaning, blanket statement?
     
    Please note that my statement, "Your lack of data is noted" was directed to George Graen who had previously responded with "Please consult the US Attorney General for these references."
    regarding my two requests for references,
    a) "Kindly supply evidence of your claim that "Corporations are granted a community charter to do business in a socially acceptable manner or lose the charter." I ask because I am an officer in two companies and two corporations and find no such wording in any of these authorizations." and
    b) "Please supply evidence for your claim that "they must be first or second in their markets"  Sidney Schoeffler, founder of PIMS, seems to have missed this 'fact' for 40 years now." How is 'your lack of data is noted" a demeaning, blanket statement?
     
    Lunch in Snottsdale is a good idea. I look forward to a face to face dialogue. I have not idea where you found my vitae but please note that vitae only tell where you have been, not your intentions.
     
    Onward,
    Jack Ring
     


  • 11.  Universal Value?

    Posted 04-13-2009 22:12
    ----- Original Message -----
    From: <nickols@att.net>
    Sent: Friday, April 10, 2009 6:44 AM
    Subject: Re: Universal Value?


    >
    > Well, Jack, I share the importance you attach to results and I agree that
    > there are lots of people who don't wish to be measured. However, I don't
    > agree that behavior can't be measured nor do I agree with the blanket
    > statement that results can be measured. I do agree that there is a
    > means-end relationship between behavior and results and, by extension, it
    > seems to me that, in some cases, influencing or controlling behavior is a
    > pretty straight path to influencing or controlling results.

    Fred,
    Yes, I should have said Code of Conduct, not Behavior. Thanks.

    Pls tell us how to measure Conduct. Isn't that the classic Project
    Management situation in which a task is 'on schedule' until 80% of the time
    is left then revealed to be waaaay behind?

    Pls tell us why results cannot be measured. For something to be a result its
    ontological existence must be discernable.
    >
    >


  • 12.  Universal Value?

    Posted 04-14-2009 10:05
    Jack:

    Regarding your comments below...


    Well, I believe I was talking about measuring behavior, not conduct, but I'll respond to both.

    > Pls tell us how to measure Conduct.

    Behavior - at least overt behavior - can be observed. If it can be observed, it can be classified (e.g., walking, talking, writing, etc). Its instances, if classified, can be compared (e.g., of three people walking, one might be the slowest and another the fastest, while the one between these two is faster than the slowest and slower than the fastest). The number of instances can be counted and certain other aspects might be calculated (e.g., walking at a rate of 3.75 miles per hour). Classify, compare, count and calculate - these are our old friend nominal, ordinal, interval and ratio. So, yes, I believe I can measure behavior. I assume I could do the same for a Code of Conduct (e.g., I could count the number of infractions, if nothing else).


    > Isn't that the classic Project
    > Management situation in which a task is 'on schedule' until 80% of the time
    > is left then revealed to be waaaay behind?

    I don't think so. The situation you refer to above is common enough, but in my experience it's more a case of avoiding the wrath of the powers that be until that is no longer viable. Besides, early on, it is simply too early to say we're way behind; later, as the situation worsens, people are reluctant to put themselves on the spot; lastly, when all can see the schedule is shot, it's time to fess up. There's no denying the facts. However, none of that means that project progress can't be measured; it is more a case of optimistic or unrealistic scheduling to begin with.

    >
    > Pls tell us why results cannot be measured. For something to be a result its
    > ontological existence must be discernable.

    You stipulate a requirement regarding results, namely that its ontological existence must be discernible. Given that stipulation, you could indeed measure all results. However, that requirement wasn't stipulated earlier and I happen to believe that not all results are directly discernible. We often have to accept indicators of the result we're after. Suppose, for instance, that I have settled on the result of gaining the respect of my peers. I can't directly observe their respect for me; I can only gauge or estimate its existence based on the nature and qualities of their reactions to and interactions with me. That their respect for me isn't "discernible" doesn't mean I don't or can't pursue that as a result.


    --
    Regards,

    Fred Nickols
    Managing Partner
    Distance Consulting, LLC
    nickols@att.net
    www.nickols.us

    "Assistance at A Distance"


  • 13.  Universal Value?

    Posted 04-14-2009 10:50
    Fred,
    Thank you for this response. Now I have a better understanding of what you
    mean by measure.

    I gather that the notion of evaluate is not included, such that having
    measured people walking there is no way to evaluate whether the size, pace,
    etc. of the group is fit for purpose. Further, if you cannot observe
    directly but are dependent on reports by the denizens then the reports may
    be biased thus your conclusions in error.

    Regarding results I think the very meaning of the term includes ontological
    existence so I did not consciously insert a requirement. Then 'directly'
    discernable popped up which I did not contemplate because, following your
    reasoning above, state and status can be computed based on other
    observations.

    I ask these questions in the quest for 'Who is qualified to govern." An
    email I sent you last night will illustrate this.

    Onward,
    Jack Ring

    ----- Original Message -----
    From: <nickols@att.net>
    To: <MG-ED-DV@AOMLISTS.PACE.EDU>
    Sent: Tuesday, April 14, 2009 7:05 AM
    Subject: Re: Universal Value?


    > Jack:
    >
    > Regarding your comments below...
    >
    >
    > Well, I believe I was talking about measuring behavior, not conduct, but
    > I'll respond to both.
    >
    >> Pls tell us how to measure Conduct.
    >
    > Behavior - at least overt behavior - can be observed. If it can be
    > observed, it can be classified (e.g., walking, talking, writing, etc).
    > Its instances, if classified, can be compared (e.g., of three people
    > walking, one might be the slowest and another the fastest, while the one
    > between these two is faster than the slowest and slower than the fastest).
    > The number of instances can be counted and certain other aspects might be
    > calculated (e.g., walking at a rate of 3.75 miles per hour). Classify,
    > compare, count and calculate - these are our old friend nominal, ordinal,
    > interval and ratio. So, yes, I believe I can measure behavior. I assume
    > I could do the same for a Code of Conduct (e.g., I could count the number
    > of infractions, if nothing else).
    >
    >
    >> Isn't that the classic Project
    >> Management situation in which a task is 'on schedule' until 80% of the
    >> time
    >> is left then revealed to be waaaay behind?
    >
    > I don't think so. The situation you refer to above is common enough, but
    > in my experience it's more a case of avoiding the wrath of the powers that
    > be until that is no longer viable. Besides, early on, it is simply too
    > early to say we're way behind; later, as the situation worsens, people are
    > reluctant to put themselves on the spot; lastly, when all can see the
    > schedule is shot, it's time to fess up. There's no denying the facts.
    > However, none of that means that project progress can't be measured; it is
    > more a case of optimistic or unrealistic scheduling to begin with.
    >
    >>
    >> Pls tell us why results cannot be measured. For something to be a result
    >> its
    >> ontological existence must be discernable.
    >
    > You stipulate a requirement regarding results, namely that its ontological
    > existence must be discernible. Given that stipulation, you could indeed
    > measure all results. However, that requirement wasn't stipulated earlier
    > and I happen to believe that not all results are directly discernible. We
    > often have to accept indicators of the result we're after. Suppose, for
    > instance, that I have settled on the result of gaining the respect of my
    > peers. I can't directly observe their respect for me; I can only gauge or
    > estimate its existence based on the nature and qualities of their
    > reactions to and interactions with me. That their respect for me isn't
    > "discernible" doesn't mean I don't or can't pursue that as a result.
    >
    >
    > --
    > Regards,
    >
    > Fred Nickols
    > Managing Partner
    > Distance Consulting, LLC
    > nickols@att.net
    > www.nickols.us
    >
    > "Assistance at A Distance"
    >